like its hard to explain, but the air will just get really thick

Also, girls *really, really* like it when you go out of your way to say little things like "hello, good morning I hope you're doing ok!", some small talk that isn't too invasive is nice, and gradually if the girl is receptive she'll open up more and more

yeah

thats more late stage shit tho

I somehow get people to open up to me

Don't know how

You'll pick it up, but women's body language *does change* when they're into you and have sexual tension, it might not be immediately noticable though (things like fiddling around, looking around, looking at your feet/sometimes avoiding eye contact, lowering head a little bit while looking you in the eyes)

It's a bit subtle

Subtlety is big

Eh I'm not really good at picking up that sorta shit

Then i again I'm antisocial as all hell

Thing with women is that we tend to naturally become a bit submissive/lower our guard around guys we like

Ah

You really gotta be a bit forward about your intentions though

Some women will give you hints, and if you don't pick it up, they get upset

Some women will get aggressive about it

If I don't pick up the hint I either:
>A) Get fucked for it
>B) They get annoyed
>C) Think I'm not interested
Shit I suck at multiple choice

Yeah

It depends on the girl

And how aggressive she is and what she wants from you

I know

Some girls just want to fuck you/suck your dick and leave ya

Some girls want to fuck your entire life up lol

Some girls will be really into you, but you might not be into them

So many variables

Depends on the girl, but you really, really want a girl who's got similar interests and values as you

That's true

Girls with similar interests/values that are into you, but might not be *as attractive as you would like* are often willing to make physical changes to fit into what you like

Things like losing weight, maintining hygene, etc. but you need to encourage her and support her

You have to be good at explaining why you want her to make those changes though, example:
"I would be more attracted to you if you took better care of your health, I am worried that your weight is going to cause long term health problems and I want you to feel better and more confident about yourself"
"I think you should brush your teeth more, I'm worried about your dental health/hygiene"

So basically promote it without being a dick about it

You might also need to take into consideration that her social circle/upbringing might have caused some personal problems (for example, my mom never taught me basic hygiene and I've been working on improving it for the past couple years, it's some hard habits to break)

yes

You really have to frame it in such a way that you *care about her*

Be considerate about everything and try to understand why she is how she is

Got it

If she's not willing to listen to you about those changes or *try* to attempt those changes, you might want to have a serious talk about the likelihood of the relationship continuing or not

Alright

If she *isn't* willing to listen to you when you try to explain these things/have a conversation, she is not an ideal partner

She isn't going to take you seriously when it comes to arguments or disagreements

Noted