Hard though

I think I have better odds at the lottery

A lot of women are extremely self-centered

Lot of women nowadays that will want a relationship but only if it’s convenient, then the moment it isn’t they’ll do everything in their power to get you to leave so they can make it seem like they were the victim

Now don’t get me wrong there’s still plenty of nice girls out there, but it takes a lot to figure out how a particular girl thinks, what sets them off, what makes them happy, lot of subtle things you gotta look for

Ie: they dont know themselves and suck at communication

^^

And that’s the biggest problem for many my age, many of us don’t know who we are, don’t know what we want, don’t know who we’re looking for, that or crazy amounts of hormones just making people do irascible shit

Its not just your age

Most dont well into their 40s

People dont get enough time to

That’s some shit

I couldn’t imagine being that way in my 40s

Its basically the bar crowd

Or you get people like me, who knew what they wanted, but also know its not obtainable, so you try to go for other shit, but none of it is what you want. And really all you want is just to sleep because you disagree with virtually everything in society.

I feel that way, it’s sad that my goals in life are now kinda shunned by society, it’s shunned to settle down, to tie yourself to one person, to have kids

I still blame easly accessible contraceptives for that. If birth control was more limited and not as easily accessible whether it be implants, pills, etc, i honestly think the more conservative idea of staying with one person would still be viewd as accepted now a days

And know the feel sleep

I think it has to do more with role models

And "sex sells" as a marketing convention

Cheapens it

Makes it nothing via over repetition

Becomes the background expectation

I can see that, but overly sexual marketing has kinda slowdown as of recently

Like it's not as upfront compared to let say 08-2010

Rememner those old carls jr commercials lol

Lol, yeah

Have to wait though to see if theres a change

The people who missed that have a while yet

Music also matters

Being told shit on loop

More effecting than most realize

Its basically post hypnotic suggeustion, and few pick their teachers wisely

Yeah i can see that too

It's just a matter of culture during a certain time

Also noticed hook up culture started picking up speed when the push for being more open over your sexuality (whether it be what gender you're into, how many partmers you've had, etc) started to become more mainstream

It's just multiple factors

Polyamory, when that bullshit really started getting tossed around

A five cent word to justify a lack of self control

Hell some people are even trying to make the idea of STD's seem less of an issue by renaming certain ones STI's and that some are less bad as you think

Its so dumb