Not being an asshole and not acting like you're better than everyone

@Clitzkrieg
Never once do I do that.

I am honest and shitpost. But I dont act like I'm better then anyone

How does that sound like I'm better then them? I'm being honest.

" wow, look at him, he's leeching on you" it's a way of saying someone's shit to make you feel better about yourself

My ass. I'm trying to explain that being a leech for someone emotionally is fucking harmful. It's called negative reinforcement.

And it's the truth

Yes, but keeping shit stored up in yourself can be even more hurtful, I know that shit and I've dealt with it, it's better for people to vent. I can recognize someone looking for attention apart from someone venting, if he's saying the truth that we're his only friends he has, then I'm not gonna fucking bail on him

Never suggested that.
Never suggested hes looking for attention
Never implied hes lying
But implying that I'm a virgin who doesnt know what hes talking about? Yeah, okay let's all just mope around and claim its women or blame everything else but our own fucking flaws or even actually vent. This is exactly the kind of shit that made me leave last time.

Do you know the five stages of grief? Just telling someone they have to change on the first 4 isn't gonna do much, if he hasn't accepted it yet then he should vent and let the feelings burn off before trying to better himself

We'd prefer you not leave again lmao.

I have to agree with Amerikek here, you're still kinda smart

@Clitzkrieg
Oh fuck off dude. I'm not trying to prove I'm some megamind nigga. I am a honest and straight forward person. I know grief and break ups. I've been through them and coming from experience I know being sad about it and blaming others insist the answer.

He needs to get a grip.

He has some sort of a grip on it, but I know and felt the same kinda grief and I know that it's hard for him rn. People get there eventually, it must just be a huge punch to him and his psyche, it's not that easy to get back on track after that

They were dating for 5 months as friends beforehand. If they are this emotional about it their is a problem.

It didnt work out. It happens.

If you people wanna momma bird him fine. I'll just stay out of it

wait hold on, you think I'm blaming women? no, I blame myself for the whole thing, I feel bad about it and I miss her.

^

I can't fucking take it anymore

she said she never loved me, she just didn't know how to say no

Block her.

Don't talk to her.

She's clearly not worth it.

@T-34 Waifu Call her out on it if you wanna.

Just do what you wanna do and don't talk to her.

But whatever you do, please for the love of god don't kill yourself.

@T-34 Waifu just block her already

She's a waste of time and energy

You still talking to her will make her view you as a weakling and thus more likley to get manipulated again

People like that will take advantage of a kind heart trust me when i say that

she won't even talk to me, I'm not really allowed to talk this out. I'm hearing this through an old friend that I don't talk to anymore. it's fucking dumb too. "i want to be with you forever"
>write poetry about how she loves me every day
>"I never loved him"

Some people are just too afraid to speak how they feel

You have to do to them what they did to you

Pretend

I mean she literally told me she loved me so many times

Pretend they don't exist from now on

Templar, I don't have anything else. All I had was that relationship and I don't even have that anymore.

I can't really just pretennd