Message from @keknomancer
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It's going to take some time then
Modern parents are trash tbqh
There hasn't been a majority of quality parents since the people who raised boomers
idk what nature but therapy might be an option down the line if you really care about her
since none of us here are equipped to give professional medical advice, the best thing you can do is offer a safe place for her to come to or be a person for her to talk to
Sheep couldn't have said it any better honestly.
Iirc she's seen therapists
is she still living with her parents?
The worst part is, cause of her mom's fuckin wagie government job her whole family can get sent permanently to a province on the other side of the country in a week's notice
Yeah she is
I'm assuming this is something related to parent-child abuse
Her mom is a fucking cuntnigger and I hate her
She does horrible shit to my gf and justifies it with "she's tough she can handle it"
Elaborate
She kicks her out without boots or a coat in the middle of winter
Throws away her belongings at will over stupid shit
Get her out
I'm trying to
Or start working on getting her out
My gf has had to hide the fact I bought her a galaxy s5 for Christmas cause her mom will just break it
idk about the procedures in Canada, but try to contact a shelter or agency that offers help with legal procedures and abusive homes
Despite all of this she has some moral obligation to make sure her sister is okay
So unless the dad stops being a cuck and takes custody
Then get both her and her sister out; don't worry about the ramifications against the mom, she made her own bed and she can fucking lay in it
The issue is, the sister is a freshman and has no way to support herself
And the dad is being pussywhipped by the step mom into abandoning his kids in favor of hers
Sounds like she's got physical abuse, emotional manipulation and physical neglect going on
She might not have a way to support herself, but there are resources out there that should be able to at least get her into a foster home/temporary housing to get her and her sister away from it
She would never agree to that
I don't think she would have much choice as a minor
I guess
I don't want to put her sister into a worse situation
Part of the problem with an abusive relationship like that is the parent is obviously manipulating her into staying with the threat of her sister being harmed/treated as badly, but she also needs to understand that her mom isn't just going to stop treating her kids like shit when they grow up and leave
I'm gonna talk to her about it
I'm gonna see if she could live with me
Because my house is fairly big, even for Canada standards (but it's built like shit)
And I don't see any better alternative
Ok but you also need to understand that from a legal perspective, if she doesn't start filing paperwork/start getting stuff down on paper that she is being physically abused and needs to leave, you could potentially be seen as a kidnapper OR she could be physically removed and brought back to her mom by the authorities since she is still a minor
It's a little different in canada
It also depends on the province
Ontario