It's some parental shit

It's going to take some time then

Modern parents are trash tbqh

There hasn't been a majority of quality parents since the people who raised boomers

idk what nature but therapy might be an option down the line if you really care about her
since none of us here are equipped to give professional medical advice, the best thing you can do is offer a safe place for her to come to or be a person for her to talk to

Sheep couldn't have said it any better honestly.

Iirc she's seen therapists

is she still living with her parents?

The worst part is, cause of her mom's fuckin wagie government job her whole family can get sent permanently to a province on the other side of the country in a week's notice

Yeah she is

I'm assuming this is something related to parent-child abuse

Her mom is a fucking cuntnigger and I hate her

She does horrible shit to my gf and justifies it with "she's tough she can handle it"

Elaborate

She kicks her out without boots or a coat in the middle of winter

Throws away her belongings at will over stupid shit

Get her out

I'm trying to

Or start working on getting her out

My gf has had to hide the fact I bought her a galaxy s5 for Christmas cause her mom will just break it

idk about the procedures in Canada, but try to contact a shelter or agency that offers help with legal procedures and abusive homes

She wouldn't agree to it

Despite all of this she has some moral obligation to make sure her sister is okay

So unless the dad stops being a cuck and takes custody

Then get both her and her sister out; don't worry about the ramifications against the mom, she made her own bed and she can fucking lay in it

The issue is, the sister is a freshman and has no way to support herself

And the dad is being pussywhipped by the step mom into abandoning his kids in favor of hers

Sounds like she's got physical abuse, emotional manipulation and physical neglect going on

She might not have a way to support herself, but there are resources out there that should be able to at least get her into a foster home/temporary housing to get her and her sister away from it

She would never agree to that

I don't think she would have much choice as a minor

I guess

I don't want to put her sister into a worse situation

Part of the problem with an abusive relationship like that is the parent is obviously manipulating her into staying with the threat of her sister being harmed/treated as badly, but she also needs to understand that her mom isn't just going to stop treating her kids like shit when they grow up and leave

I'm gonna talk to her about it

I'm gonna see if she could live with me

Because my house is fairly big, even for Canada standards (but it's built like shit)

And I don't see any better alternative

Ok but you also need to understand that from a legal perspective, if she doesn't start filing paperwork/start getting stuff down on paper that she is being physically abused and needs to leave, you could potentially be seen as a kidnapper OR she could be physically removed and brought back to her mom by the authorities since she is still a minor

It's a little different in canada

It also depends on the province