a good deal can be done by raising people correctly... example: my father was spoiled and my mther raised very stritctly

Go for it

you are doing agreat service to that kid

@Z-Man (soon to be Y A) thats true

It's a good idea, psychedelic. But the viability varies

@Kazemaru How so?

If you have a desire to adopt I say go for it. There can be big problems with it sometimes.

Lots of single women are also in the lista for adoption, you might be waiting forever

@Drogo_Baggins like landing an absolute clusterfuck of a kid loaded with issues

@Z-Man (soon to be Y A) That's one way to put it

However, you could voluntariat to a nursery and see if works

@Psychedelic Corpse Fucker I'd say hold off on adoption until after the collapse.

Crack babies, babies who's mothers smoked and drank, older kids who were taken away from really messed up homes with all sorts of emotional issues, no telling what you could adopt.

I think adoption is only really viable if you work from home. especially with young kids you need to be at home 100% while they are home.

One can also be a menthor

@Drogo_Baggins Well, you usually get to screen and select the kids you want to adpot. So I'm not worrying about that.

I'm not adopting a kid with live parents.

@Ultra We'll see. I personally want to adopt when I'm retiring/retired.

OK, crazy idea here: what if you payed an ex-porn star to carry tour baby?

@Kazemaru Not a good idea.

surrogacy?

You are right, that is a crazy idea.

better have a good lawyer

Surrogate mother might get attached to the child. Game over for you.

The last thing I want is my child being born with stds before he can get them of his own volition. Plus paying for an overpriced, over the wall pornstar just doesn't make economical sense.

Then... The last option it would be getting rid of your "fatherhood desire"

maybe get a job that lets be part of children's lives

I know that is difficult, but...

@Kazemaru What? Why?

I have people outside of my family I consider "uncle"/"aunt"

Just had a solution.

@thadeal4real Come on and slam? And welcome to the jam!?!

How old are you, psyche?

https://youtu.be/I_ddNBJrHOE

@Kazemaru Old enough to drink.

Then you have plenty of time to consider all the options

I heard of a paternity case where a couple who couldn't have children hired a surrogate mother using donated sperm and egg. Half a dozen people were claiming the kid. Not sure if the story was true but it could happen.

@Drogo_Baggins Which is why it's a good idea for the kids parents to be either dead or indisposed.

Peharps this could be a good topic for next videos

@Happy Humble Hermit Future video on adoption?

If he has knowledge enough to discuss it