Message from @Kazemaru

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2018-09-29 18:27:28 UTC  

@Kazemaru What makes you say that?

2018-09-29 18:27:45 UTC  

I don't hate kids but I never really wanted kids. I do enjoy mentoring people.

2018-09-29 18:28:05 UTC  

I like mentoring others too

2018-09-29 18:28:38 UTC  

But mentoring is not the same as fatherhood

2018-09-29 18:28:44 UTC  

True.

2018-09-29 18:29:52 UTC  

Also, you describ having a lot of activities, but yet, you always feel that something is missing, right?

2018-09-29 18:31:01 UTC  

Yeah

2018-09-29 18:31:14 UTC  

I feel like I should be doing more.

2018-09-29 18:31:42 UTC  

Now, try to imagine yourself with a toddler

2018-09-29 18:31:56 UTC  

It's quite scary, isn't?

2018-09-29 18:32:12 UTC  

It would be weird haha.

2018-09-29 18:32:21 UTC  

I'd be constantly improving my procedures to take care of it.

2018-09-29 18:33:08 UTC  

I've taken care of kids only twice in my life. The first time they were toddlers so they didn't give me too much fuss. The second time it was pre-teen so it was a lot of attitude but I wasn't cleaning up after them as much.

2018-09-29 18:33:54 UTC  

There it is

2018-09-29 18:34:20 UTC  

It's the fatherhood desire coming to surface

2018-09-29 18:34:29 UTC  

I just realized I called a toddler an "it" 😄 I meant them.

2018-09-29 18:34:58 UTC  

@Kazemaru How can I redirect that into my career or education?

2018-09-29 18:35:06 UTC  

What if I just kept going to school while working full time instead?

2018-09-29 18:35:47 UTC  

It would only cost $6,000 per year so I'd easily afford that. I could do 5 classes per year while working full time.

2018-09-29 18:35:58 UTC  

I'd probably get burned out but if I manage it right, it could work.

2018-09-29 18:36:31 UTC  

There's no way you can direct this to career or education

2018-09-29 18:36:46 UTC  

What if I am the best uncle ever?

2018-09-29 18:37:47 UTC  

If you are the best uncle ever, then your fatherhood desire it's never going to end

2018-09-29 18:38:14 UTC  

Well I guess surrogacy?

2018-09-29 18:38:38 UTC  

I don't know if that's my issue. We will see with time, I guess.

2018-09-29 18:41:45 UTC  

Dont worry too much then, you have plenty of time

2018-09-29 18:42:00 UTC  

"Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat." - Hillary Clinton

"Men have always been the primary victims of rape. It happens to their wives, sisters and mothers." - Troll

2018-09-29 18:42:14 UTC  

TFM show gold

2018-09-29 18:42:17 UTC  

he is right. you could have a kid when your 80

2018-09-29 18:42:20 UTC  

@Kazemaru True.

2018-09-29 18:42:26 UTC  

not that i'd recommend it in this climate

2018-09-29 18:42:28 UTC  

Unless I get a vasectomy 😄

2018-09-29 18:42:50 UTC  

But, if you were hunting woman, I would recomend a daughter of a mgtow

2018-09-29 18:43:05 UTC  

Oh, of course.

2018-09-29 18:43:24 UTC  

I don't have interest in that. We shall see in the future!

2018-09-29 18:44:05 UTC  

the problem is not women. women have been the same for thousands of years. the problem is that society has given women this really big gun. and it points it at mens heads. and getting married is giving a women the gun and just hoping she doesnt use it

2018-09-29 18:44:20 UTC  

doesnt matter who the women is.

2018-09-29 18:44:27 UTC  

id never do that

2018-09-29 18:44:28 UTC  

Yup

2018-09-29 18:45:25 UTC  

it could be literally my waifu. wouldnt do it. now its so retarded that even dating is giving a women a gun and hoping she doesnt use it. because at any point she can just say dv happened out of spite and boom your fucked.

2018-09-29 18:49:47 UTC  

I think we put to much expectations on woman I guess. We all have our personal faults/evils, so expecting woman to be perfect will never be possible. But a patriarchy would still help I guess.