Message from @Kazemaru
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I have work
Big attachment to your material things? @Mysteriedingens
See you Nadia
@The Tradesman I'll be back in 30 mins
no, i live minimalism cause ive grown up with a slightly hoarding father and hated it
But the things i have, i defend and not let anyone take away, cause they symbolize who i am and my hobbys. Ich lasse den Teufel nicht zwischen meine Wände :-p
@Denno I'll try to stay on.
@Flushtater with answering the question I had? Yes, thank you :)
Lol. @Mysteriedingens pretty sure women tend to not mean any harm when using your stuff. And if one doesn't like it, why not just tell them. Könnte so einfach sein
By the way - are there any women in this group? Can they even be mgtow?
@Artemis You may did not understand i dont have a problem with others using my stuff. Furthermore im happy if someone is interested in the same things. It seems that to me you didnt yet experience a woman trying to shape your apartment into hers by replacing things. Isses aber nicht.
Or forbidding you certain things because it takes away attention from them
Good morning everyone
@A-B rebel Oh. And can they potentially be mgtow?
MGTOW is a male Movement - it is included in the name.
@Mysteriedingens lol. You got a point there, haven't experienced that.
But isn't that a general human thing? I would say men tend to do that aswell.
Keine Ahnung, wie der Text weitergeht 😂
Morning everyone!
Okay. I thought maybe it would be like feminism including males.
Morning
@Artemis If you look at the common marriage, many men are restricted to their "manspace" in the garage with all their tools and shit. And they only have that to repair stuff in the house. I dont know any profound male who likes this overly exaggerated decorative bullshit women tend to place around your place to appear friendly
@Artemis to understand mgtow takes several weeks. Watch Sandman and HHH videos from the beggining. Also, read the comments. It will help
@Artemis Oh, you are a MGTOW-apprentice? To understand that shit takes a long time and dedication - and often a trigger.
@Mysteriedingens well, compromises should probably be done on both sides. And also there may be someone out there that is compatible with what you like on your house if it matters so much to you. The easy way out ( =giving up) ain't always the best one, just sayin'
@Artemis MGTOW is not giving up.
It is seeing yourself as the prize rather than the player in the game and acting like it aswell as working your value up.
I agree that monogamy coupled with irrational expectations is doomed from the start though that doesn't mean that it cannot work with certain twists here and there
Monogamy doesnt work without the fear of punishment. I advice you to try it, after that come back and approve all points mentioned.
a relationship cant be balanced, one is in the dominant position. And if you feel like you are equal, then she is in power.
@Kazemaru not sure yet if I will spend that much time on this topic. I was just curious since I agreed with a few points and wanted to hear what it's all about
@Flushtater yea it's obvious that security is an illusion. So are most of the concepts and perceived "realities", especially in the West. But that is not just something women fall for
@Artemis Women are a victim of this system aswell because of the artificial independency. I mean they are more unhappy than ever. They hate working, they hate pressure. Yet they are also indoctrinated by it. MGTOW is not defeaterism but getting the most out your time and resources. And you may yet didnt find a woman who got to be your cryptonite and if you are lucky you never will. But if you will, that bitch is gonna try to cut your balls off
Who says a relationship has to be equal anyway? What's wrong with one being more dominant? @Mysteriedingens
Nothing
But it is draining energy if it doesn come natural to the relationship dynamics (that change any time if another male appears in her life)
and if you are the passive part, you will get very hurt when she finds a better option, which they all wanna do
Women dont want to be submissive in a relationship dynamics, they dont cook anymore, they dont clean anymore, they want to decide things, they want entertainment, they want attention... It is either really taxing to be dominant or you are too passive
@Flushtater but what are women supposed to do about the biological need for protection? Yea, they have it. Doesn't mean she is automatically incapable of loving you and dedicating herself entirely and loyaly to you or whatever