Message from @Shido
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they are entirely dependent on other people for their self worth
extroversion, external validation
have you guys seen maslow hierarchy of needs?
also studied it
he says that in order to self-actualise, you need to have fulfilled certain requirements
one of those is your 'belonginess and love' need
do u agree with him
i love art and all my colleagues in this regard, and my belonging to it is rather solid :3
gotya
so belonginess can come from being part of a community that shares your love for a subject?
once a girl told me she wanted to learn to draw and her birthday was a week away and i started making a guide for her
got sexual offender accusations
standard
couldnt belonginess also come from being part of an online community, like this one
belonging can come from knowing that you are one of the best in something and to strife for more
how does belonging come from that
i thought belonging comes from being accepted by a community
belonginess and love is more a part of something as family, group for sharing your hobbies (like your sport team) part of group
being approved by one is what actually gives it value
Good morning kiddos, what are we talking about?
knowing that you do something that you like right
@Andrew The Meme King fundamental truths
always nce to have
Huh, interesting
btw, do you guys agree with this: all positive emotions that we experience share a common component being 'desire'
but i dont really understand
without desire, we don't invoke positive emotions by doing something]
why the maslow hierarchy request you to validate all step one by one
true, i didnt understand that too
because its gradal
from the most humble to the most greedy xD
I mean, being content is having a desire filled, that's a positive emotion from doing something
why you cant go the esteem and self-actualization without belonginess and love
one is freedom
and you can be loved, or in toxic relation ship without know it, and you will never have the feeling to be free
feel of belonging is so nice and romantic BUT nowadays you dont really commit your life to anything because you are discared at the drop of a hat
Belong to group of men, not a woman who fundamentally looks for a reason to ditch you
@JDB not sure about the desire but i can tell you i feel no pleasure in things i dont want
i agree with that Andrew, I guess is the real meaning
@Andrew The Meme King true - but you only feel content having completed a desire. and aren't the positive emotions from being content short-lived? - whereas positive emotions while pursuing a desire will be released until that desire is fulfilled.