Message from @Shido

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2018-11-20 17:25:53 UTC  

find a few and make them treehug up and down

2018-11-20 17:26:34 UTC  

xD

2018-11-20 18:07:00 UTC  

what is the fundamental reason that explains why some people don't like being alone?

2018-11-20 18:10:57 UTC  

they are entirely dependent on other people for their self worth

2018-11-20 18:11:05 UTC  

extroversion, external validation

2018-11-20 18:13:25 UTC  

have you guys seen maslow hierarchy of needs?

2018-11-20 18:13:36 UTC  

also studied it

2018-11-20 18:13:39 UTC  

he says that in order to self-actualise, you need to have fulfilled certain requirements

2018-11-20 18:13:53 UTC  

one of those is your 'belonginess and love' need

2018-11-20 18:14:06 UTC  

do u agree with him

2018-11-20 18:16:14 UTC  

i love art and all my colleagues in this regard, and my belonging to it is rather solid :3

2018-11-20 18:16:31 UTC  

gotya

2018-11-20 18:17:18 UTC  

so belonginess can come from being part of a community that shares your love for a subject?

2018-11-20 18:17:52 UTC  

once a girl told me she wanted to learn to draw and her birthday was a week away and i started making a guide for her

2018-11-20 18:18:07 UTC  

got sexual offender accusations

2018-11-20 18:18:23 UTC  

standard

2018-11-20 18:19:16 UTC  

couldnt belonginess also come from being part of an online community, like this one

2018-11-20 18:19:21 UTC  

belonging can come from knowing that you are one of the best in something and to strife for more

2018-11-20 18:19:55 UTC  

how does belonging come from that

2018-11-20 18:20:12 UTC  

i thought belonging comes from being accepted by a community

2018-11-20 18:20:44 UTC  

belonginess and love is more a part of something as family, group for sharing your hobbies (like your sport team) part of group

2018-11-20 18:20:58 UTC  

being approved by one is what actually gives it value

2018-11-20 18:21:04 UTC  

Good morning kiddos, what are we talking about?

2018-11-20 18:21:05 UTC  

but it's a need, it's not the most important for the hierarchy

2018-11-20 18:21:06 UTC  

knowing that you do something that you like right

2018-11-20 18:21:23 UTC  

@Andrew The Meme King fundamental truths

2018-11-20 18:21:33 UTC  

always nce to have

2018-11-20 18:22:01 UTC  

Huh, interesting

2018-11-20 18:23:22 UTC  

btw, do you guys agree with this: all positive emotions that we experience share a common component being 'desire'

2018-11-20 18:23:31 UTC  

but i dont really understand

2018-11-20 18:23:44 UTC  

without desire, we don't invoke positive emotions by doing something]

2018-11-20 18:23:52 UTC  

why the maslow hierarchy request you to validate all step one by one

2018-11-20 18:24:10 UTC  

true, i didnt understand that too

2018-11-20 18:24:13 UTC  

because its gradal

2018-11-20 18:24:29 UTC  

from the most humble to the most greedy xD

2018-11-20 18:24:40 UTC  

I mean, being content is having a desire filled, that's a positive emotion from doing something

2018-11-20 18:24:47 UTC  

why you cant go the esteem and self-actualization without belonginess and love

2018-11-20 18:24:55 UTC  

one is freedom

2018-11-20 18:25:39 UTC  

and you can be loved, or in toxic relation ship without know it, and you will never have the feeling to be free

2018-11-20 18:25:46 UTC  

feel of belonging is so nice and romantic BUT nowadays you dont really commit your life to anything because you are discared at the drop of a hat

2018-11-20 18:26:52 UTC  

Belong to group of men, not a woman who fundamentally looks for a reason to ditch you