Message from @Nerthulas

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2019-10-29 21:30:11 UTC  

Nobody is obliged to care about your honour.

2019-10-29 21:30:25 UTC  

I am

2019-10-29 21:30:39 UTC  

So are people who want to maintain long term relationships of any nature with me

2019-10-29 21:30:44 UTC  

Spiritual argument are a lot harder to crack than material one
Much more important as well
Unless you assume the role of the absolute reductionist

2019-10-29 21:30:50 UTC  

It's a prerequisite for being in my life actually

2019-10-29 21:31:06 UTC  

I have explained this too you many times @Weaboo Kempeitai the fact that preferences are subjective does not mean that they are equal

2019-10-29 21:31:15 UTC  

You will never find a woman who will have you as her only mate. That simply isn't how humans work. Things change. People stop loving eachover. This is good. This is how why find ideal mates.

2019-10-29 21:31:21 UTC  

devops is taking away my old postion, i have been gathering that experience over the last few years, I think I am finally confident to move on now

2019-10-29 21:31:41 UTC  

Monogamy has been the norm in European societies since Europeans could be distinguished as a population kek

2019-10-29 21:31:41 UTC  

it does not mean that you are obligated to respect other's preferences, and it does not mean that you shouldn't impose those preferences on the world

2019-10-29 21:31:42 UTC  

yeah you need to FULLY adopt the growth mindset. dont be one of those "who moved my cheese" guys

2019-10-29 21:31:45 UTC  

A spiritual argument can only by trumped by another spiritual argument

2019-10-29 21:31:51 UTC  

get THIRSTY for new challenges, they are new opportunities to grow

2019-10-29 21:32:02 UTC  

the best feeling is to be STRONG and know you are not dependent on any one job

2019-10-29 21:32:03 UTC  

sysadmins are going away, and those who can't code are either being server monkeys or retiring

2019-10-29 21:32:17 UTC  

Polyandry is unhealthy

2019-10-29 21:32:29 UTC  

In fact, if you want to make a woman and a man depressed, and create a shitty home environment, you can create some bullshit honor code that dictates that they cannot divorce one another.

2019-10-29 21:32:33 UTC  

everything is virtual boxes now and less work right?

2019-10-29 21:32:52 UTC  

what about polygyny?

2019-10-29 21:32:56 UTC  

you are viewing things on the micro scale, divorce is an institution

2019-10-29 21:32:58 UTC  

yeah, and hardware is more stable

2019-10-29 21:33:00 UTC  

Divorce was illegal in my country for about 400 years LMAO

2019-10-29 21:33:04 UTC  

it changes the entire game

2019-10-29 21:33:07 UTC  

People seemed to turn out fine

2019-10-29 21:33:09 UTC  

you have to look at the big picture

2019-10-29 21:33:10 UTC  

Yes, and that's bad.

2019-10-29 21:33:12 UTC  

Actually better then than now

2019-10-29 21:33:12 UTC  

I have no clue but I would imagine the attachment you feel to a dead spouse is much different than in the flesh
I wouldn't blame anyone for getting remarried I think

2019-10-29 21:33:17 UTC  

obviously its not bad

2019-10-29 21:33:18 UTC  

lol

2019-10-29 21:33:21 UTC  

plus, new tools, managing 1k servers with automation vs 100 manually

2019-10-29 21:33:30 UTC  

yeah learn some python its super popular

2019-10-29 21:33:44 UTC  

for that you merely need to look at happiness rates, rates of depression, birthrates et cetera etc.

2019-10-29 21:33:48 UTC  

obviously it worked

2019-10-29 21:33:57 UTC  

to argue otherwise would be ignorant

2019-10-29 21:34:01 UTC  

i feel like for older people we're at disadvantage in interviews, but once we're hired, we have such a depth of knowledge we blow away everyone else on our level

2019-10-29 21:34:12 UTC  

No it's not, divorce creates mentally dysfunctional women, encourages promiscuity and disincentivizes pair bonding and marital commitment which is entirely deleterious to the establishment of functional family units and thus deleterious to the whole of society

2019-10-29 21:34:23 UTC  

Will have to, I can read the code usually, just haven't done any projects with it.

2019-10-29 21:34:26 UTC  

Well, depression probably wasn't recognised as a legitimate mental condition for much of modern human history, so those stats couldn't be considered reliable.

2019-10-29 21:34:42 UTC  

it doesn't matter you can look just at the twentieth century