i was letting myself be WAY underpaid

yeah, definetely not in the corporate world

"A spook"

Not an argument

well, there were a lot of people who were underpaid during the recession

yeah

So the argument is more "spiritual" in nature yeah?

I don't know if you were in that category, i came into the job I currenlty have making 20k more than people who have been there for like 3 years cause the market chagned

It is. It's a literal spook. Honour dosen't exist independently of your consciousness. It's a subjective preference.

Ok

So is basically every opinion

Point?

https://www.zerohedge.com/markets/californias-second-biggest-utility-verge-collapse-next-edison-plummets-after-saying-it-may

Nobody is obliged to care about your honour.

I am

So are people who want to maintain long term relationships of any nature with me

Spiritual argument are a lot harder to crack than material one
Much more important as well
Unless you assume the role of the absolute reductionist

It's a prerequisite for being in my life actually

I have explained this too you many times @Weaboo Kempeitai the fact that preferences are subjective does not mean that they are equal

You will never find a woman who will have you as her only mate. That simply isn't how humans work. Things change. People stop loving eachover. This is good. This is how why find ideal mates.

devops is taking away my old postion, i have been gathering that experience over the last few years, I think I am finally confident to move on now

Monogamy has been the norm in European societies since Europeans could be distinguished as a population kek

it does not mean that you are obligated to respect other's preferences, and it does not mean that you shouldn't impose those preferences on the world

yeah you need to FULLY adopt the growth mindset. dont be one of those "who moved my cheese" guys

A spiritual argument can only by trumped by another spiritual argument

get THIRSTY for new challenges, they are new opportunities to grow

the best feeling is to be STRONG and know you are not dependent on any one job

sysadmins are going away, and those who can't code are either being server monkeys or retiring

Polyandry is unhealthy

In fact, if you want to make a woman and a man depressed, and create a shitty home environment, you can create some bullshit honor code that dictates that they cannot divorce one another.

everything is virtual boxes now and less work right?

what about polygyny?

you are viewing things on the micro scale, divorce is an institution

yeah, and hardware is more stable

Divorce was illegal in my country for about 400 years LMAO

it changes the entire game

People seemed to turn out fine

you have to look at the big picture

Yes, and that's bad.

Actually better then than now

I have no clue but I would imagine the attachment you feel to a dead spouse is much different than in the flesh
I wouldn't blame anyone for getting remarried I think