you definitely can, but you're swimming upcurrent of the culture, which is very difficult to do

That's kind of what I figured

both of my sisters view homemaking with disdain, even though my mom was a homemaker and homeschooled

Because now (and Im speaking as a woman myself who grew up in a very liberal culture) its extremely frowned upon and you are seen as a lazy, unambitious leach

^ that

Damn

one of my sisters was genuinely offended when I said if I got married I'd want my wife to be a homemaker

again, this from a theologically conservative household where both my parents were present

And there's this immense pressure that you need to be successful in the workfield and make roughly the same as your male partner/spouse

fighting the cultural winds is a hard thing to do

I believe blonde talked about this in several of her videos

And now I'm seeing the "women can't find men to marry who make as much money as they do" crap circulating again

yeah that shit is hilarious

> men are poor, women hit hardest

Me and my husband made roughly the same before he joined law enforcement

Sorry to backtrack a little bit, but assuming you desire to be a homemaker yourself, what are you studying at school?

You're fine.
Im studying criminal justice

lit

I'm minoring in that

Im specializing in forensic science for my bachelors

So technically I am a homemaker...but also a full time student

I mean

if it works it works

I quit my job so I could actually see my husband and take care of the things at home while he works

nice

that is actually quite admirable

You have to work as a team

I think its more admirable (considering the culture) that he's willing to support me while Im not working

Which is kinda sad if you think about it

yep

My wife has never worked and I never expected her to.

if I put my tinfoil hat on one starts to wonder why culture is so hell bent on keeping everyone in the workforce......

I mean she's had the odd job but nothing like a 'career'

............almost like they want parents to have as minimized an influence on the next generation as possible........

Speaking of which, she gave me our third child this morning!

Absolutely @A. Spader

Congrads!

Thanks!

What

WHY ARE YOU ON DISCORD

Because they're quietly taking a nap and I am superfluous at the moment.