Apparently not, I can't find it on mobile at all.

hmm, i wonder if they took out the feature

maybe you have to pay to do it

Discord support says it's in the server settings menu. You may also be correct that only supporters are allowed to set a nickname for themselves.

@Jeremy B in general, or just on this server?

just this server, i thought there was a way to do it

Yeah, it's disabled on this server for me. I just checked on a different server

@Jeremy B hit the 3 bars at the top, then the 3 dots next to the name of the sever, then change nickname

The "change nickname" option doesn't display for me on this server, but I can see it on my other servers. So I think only patreon/subscribestar backers can do it?

Yeah I can't see it

Really? That is odd

I didn't know that was an opinion

I can't see it either as a Patreon

Andrea's got hacks, then

oh yeah i found it instantly on another server, its just this one that I cant do it

That very odd

I just changed my name completely then switched nickname for other servers lol

I guess that works

A mod can do it. There is no mod here.

Sorry, how is not lying about reality virtue signaling?

Theory: Because if someone's making an earnest effort to "pass" and you're still calling attention to it, you could consider it virtue-signalling that you're the right-wing equivalent of a TERF?

I don't go out of my way to call anything out, its not something i would do. That's why my first point was to say, IF someone asked me.

Andrea said: This had always been my rule of thumb: if you misgender someone and they correct you nicely, return the favor and be nice back

You replied that you disagree

So you would only misgender someone if they asked you to use certain pronouns and in all other cases you would use their proper pronouns?

I'm not sure how asking is the lench pin of that response

I will gender people as I see fit, I have no problem calling Blaire White "She", and Cats, you the same. But this country is built on the idea that we can't compel speech, so the judgement should defer to me, not another person

The gendering isn't the problem, it's the compulsion

I don't go around calling people by pronouns, if someone asked me to then lie about reality. I'm perfectly fine to decline the offer.

@J Edgar and I completely agree. It's about proper polite social behavior.

The thing is though, that you never call somebody by their pronoun when you address them, so it really wouldn't come up in eye to eye interactions.

Cure the brain and the problem goes away.

I'm not normally looking eye to eye with women :)

@Shadows You are missing some good positions!

It's easy to say "cure the brain" but it's not so easy to do

Didn’t say it would be easy.

It’s worth trying to figure out how.

agreed

@Euro looking for a green card Wouldn't better ones be head to waist ratio? :)

"curing the brain" would depend on whether it's psychological or physiological, right? Earlier discussion seemed to suggest physiological, which sounds the least curable

I hope I'm using those words correctly