that is all 50 shades is

Also erotica has existed for ages my dude

A book for people who think they're too sophisticated to watch porn maybe.

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50 Shades is.. Like the McDonalds of literary smut

I'd say it was more KFC

I wouldn't know

I think BDSM culture grew out of feminism. Since the huuuuge push for women to be dominant and aggressive in society (work place etc etc), they in private long to be dominated instead

that's some 4D chess

Then explain the popularity of femdom

I think it has more to do with maledom being considered vanilla.

cucks

A lot of young women will say they want a kind, gentle, sensitive and caring man, but if they have the opportunity to enter a relationship with the hyper-masculine highschool football quarterback jock then fugetaboutit.

The truth is that women are not attracted to soy boys, and if they are it's for reasons that aren't healthy in a relationship such as effeminate men being more likely to be manipulated and cajoled in to submission. (in general. Ladies I'm not talking about you personally)

big fax

I mean there's a fine line between being dominated and being actually degraded. Women in the BDSM community seem to want the latter

true

Men are like coffee. Everyone says they want something rich and black but really they want something sweet and creamy.

Oh wait, the exact opposite of that.

Depends on who you ask

You're talking about a category of behaviour

BDSM is complex. There are healthy and unhealthy categories within it the same as with most other human relationships.

There’s a reason why Beauty and the Beast is the female version of the Hero’s Journey

Fair point

Can I just say fuck alpha males too

depends on what you mean by alpha males

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The degenerate Chads who will fuck literally anything on legs and then abandon you when you get knocked up

Ah

Oh that's not really what I would consider an alpha.

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that's just a piece of shit

That's, again, using a broad term to describe a specific thing

I'd say it fits under the category, being reproductively successful and dominant

But it's a negative offshoot

Rather than the whole story

Seems like there are different definitions for alpha males lol.
Mine is the degen Chad who isnt gonna stick around to raise a family

That’s a weak man though

Its usually those people who call themselves alpha males too

That's just a sperm donor

I'm sure they'd like to think they are