Message from @A. Spader
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it's because Islam offers the sort of thing Christianity offered in the past
in terms of community and family stability
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Included in the stability is expecting to be beaten senseless by your husband eh?
I mean
"it's just part of his culture, it's not a big deal"
Also a lot of women have abuse fantasies
cmm
if I believed in Islam I wouldn't be protestant
50 Shades is popular for a reason
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O O F
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I mean, 50 Shades became popular in what is essentially an age of feminism
50 Shades is just a really shitty version of a fairly common set of kinks
ugh
I seem to remember seeing that dating site data revealed that there was a significant intersection between people who listed feminism as one of their interests and BDSM
can't find it now though
a book for people too sofisticated to watch porn
Oh I've definitely noticed that
Also erotica has existed for ages my dude
A book for people who think they're too sophisticated to watch porn maybe.
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50 Shades is.. Like the McDonalds of literary smut
I'd say it was more KFC
I wouldn't know
I think BDSM culture grew out of feminism. Since the huuuuge push for women to be dominant and aggressive in society (work place etc etc), they in private long to be dominated instead
that's some 4D chess
Then explain the popularity of femdom
I think it has more to do with maledom being considered vanilla.
cucks
A lot of young women will say they want a kind, gentle, sensitive and caring man, but if they have the opportunity to enter a relationship with the hyper-masculine highschool football quarterback jock then fugetaboutit.
The truth is that women are not attracted to soy boys, and if they are it's for reasons that aren't healthy in a relationship such as effeminate men being more likely to be manipulated and cajoled in to submission. (in general. Ladies I'm not talking about you personally)
big fax
I mean there's a fine line between being dominated and being actually degraded. Women in the BDSM community seem to want the latter
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Men are like coffee. Everyone says they want something rich and black but really they want something sweet and creamy.
Oh wait, the exact opposite of that.
Depends on who you ask
You're talking about a category of behaviour
BDSM is complex. There are healthy and unhealthy categories within it the same as with most other human relationships.