Message from @AKAlexei

Discord ID: 611900381483761705


2019-08-16 05:31:15 UTC  

Every person has a desire, deep in their soul

2019-08-16 05:31:41 UTC  

Think of it

2019-08-16 05:31:55 UTC  

You know how to sustain yourself

2019-08-16 05:32:22 UTC  

You live close of nature

2019-08-16 05:32:40 UTC  

Going to do me a whole lot of good when I run out of insulin.

2019-08-16 05:32:56 UTC  

Been kicked out twice in the past two weeks

2019-08-16 05:33:12 UTC  

Slept up in the mountains one night, and in my car another

2019-08-16 05:33:18 UTC  

I have no money

2019-08-16 05:33:25 UTC  

No marketable skills

2019-08-16 05:34:11 UTC  

Have you tried to study something?

2019-08-16 05:34:18 UTC  

It's always good, believe me

2019-08-16 05:34:48 UTC  

Try to read articles

2019-08-16 05:35:04 UTC  

Try to course something

2019-08-16 05:35:19 UTC  

A language course is a very good start

2019-08-16 05:46:51 UTC  

Only got through high school because I was so disliked, that the staff just wanted me gone.

2019-08-16 05:47:20 UTC  

Failed out of college 3 years ago. Panic when doing tests, and just couldn't make myself do the work.

2019-08-16 05:48:34 UTC  

There just is something not right in my head. A connection is just not there. I have an abysmal memory for someone my age. Zero, and I mean zero self confidence. Terrible anger. Horrid social skills. No desire, or hope for future.

2019-08-16 12:27:05 UTC  

I lost my baby daughter. I am completely destitute. I have chemical imbalances that I'm hiding from the military. If I can do all that, you can beat this. You're far stronger than you realize. Don't let your brain convince you that suicide is the answer. Fight back.

2019-08-16 12:31:23 UTC  

@Biohazard6520 I used to be like this, had to give myself something to live for so I went and got a manual labor job and make learning how to fix cars my personal mission. The shop I worked for required no experience so I just went in and started working like a week after my interview. The work being so demanding plus the challenge of teaching myself a new skillset really helped me get myself turned around

2019-08-16 12:33:25 UTC  

Hobbit brings up something important

2019-08-16 12:33:39 UTC  

If you can't live for yourself right now, that's okay

2019-08-16 12:33:46 UTC  

Find something, anything to live for

2019-08-16 12:33:56 UTC  

Whether its fixing cars, pets, family, etc.

2019-08-16 12:34:06 UTC  

Yep

2019-08-16 12:34:29 UTC  

Now for me it's taking care of my wife and building my music production company

2019-08-16 12:35:20 UTC  

But that job in the shop taught me I needed to be busy and working and having things to do BECAUSE I want to be doing them in order to get my head on straight

2019-08-16 12:44:07 UTC  

@AKAlexei I can offer nothing more than my deepest condolences for your loss.

2019-08-16 12:44:57 UTC  

For me it was guns, learning guitar, and just bring stubborn. Got diagnosed with a rare degenerative eye disease at 19 that prevented me doing the job I wanted since I was a child, shooting driving at night. High school sweetheart had a miscarriage and moved to OR with family, immediately followed by an extremely abusive one, I had no friends, no money, and no reason for anything. Just find something or someone to live for like these guys say^. Be stubborn, be persistent. Nag yourself. Shit'll buff out brother

2019-08-16 12:45:11 UTC  

I do not care for pity, nor do I deserve it. I just need to talk. A majority of my family is either dead, or I don't know them, and would kill half of them myself. I've never had a good relationship, and never really had friends. I am a bad person, I am cold emotionally, and as my own mother has told me among other things, I will never amount to anything in my life, and am a horrible person. I prefer solitude, because all I can do is hurt people, but as much as I may try to convince myself against it, I am lonely, and have been for a long time. There is not much reason in trying to live a life with no purpose, but that is exactly what I have been doing my whole life. I am filled with hate for so many things that I go days, even weeks without feeling anything but anger, sadness, and stres. I cope with this by making other people laugh, or arguing with people, I may as well learn something along the way.

2019-08-16 12:45:48 UTC  

All I do is work, then come home and work on these old brokeen vehicles. I never got to have much of a childhood.

2019-08-16 12:46:14 UTC  

Then you can make a change

2019-08-16 12:46:18 UTC  

I do not mean to take away from your problems at all, I just wish to talk.

2019-08-16 12:46:20 UTC  

You have control

2019-08-16 12:46:33 UTC  

You're in charge of what you do with yourself bro

2019-08-16 12:47:05 UTC  

I brought up what I am going through because I'm telling you that if I can get through that kind of shit, shit I have zero control over, then you can get through yours especially because of the fact that you have control

2019-08-16 12:47:11 UTC  

Sometimes the best thing you can do is vent man, bottling stuff in will eat you alive

2019-08-16 12:47:19 UTC  

^

2019-08-16 12:47:23 UTC  

Yep

2019-08-16 12:47:27 UTC  

Bro, life's a struggle, not to sound cliche or like a hippie, but you can't dwell on the bad shit my man. Find something that brings joy. You got this shit.

2019-08-16 12:48:02 UTC  

My choices in life are very limited, colorblind, type 1 diabetic, bi-laryngeal paraylysis, slight limp from a crushed foot.

2019-08-16 12:48:35 UTC  

What the hell is bi-laryngeal paralysis