Message from @jaruspk
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ive been on 16 mile ruck marches lead by special forces, puked my guts out at 4 AM
these books validated it all
also read: seneca on the shortness of life
I have that!
the aurelius book
@jaruspk and @Thomatorr, King of Ohio read these guys. you will love them
lets go to books for dummies so admin dont get salty
stoicism for dummies
boom
there are loads of youtube content about stoicism. go check it out, if youre dealing with depression, anxiety, "doomerism", any of that shit. check it out
i meant that channel king
But yeah,lately I find these " i wanna die " posts fucking frustrating as fuck
here's the basic tenant @jaruspk. you can put EVERYTHING in your life into a binary, things you can change and things you cannot. if you can change the situation, fucking good! if you cant, dont even invest emotionally.
when im driving in the car and my GF starts yelling at me because i made a wrong turn. i just turn around. why should i get upset? what good could it do? can i change how she feels? no
if im at the range and it starts raining, i think "thank the gods i can train in adverse weather"! why not turn a bad situation into mental training
stoic teachings teach us to let go of things we cannot change.
top die inside and come back again
scenica said, men are often more tortured by what is in their minds than what is in the physical world
Ok but at least i tryied im only one who care about her in class so the things like i can do like chat or give her notes from lessobs ill do but im not going to do if full time
alright! well do what you CAN do, but leave it at that
and why is that?
I dont know ima like 101001 guy like binary if its science no problem but if its poetry feeling i cant realy understand that
youre in college?
Kinda
Im in poland so that will be like end of highschool and start of studies for ya
oh right on, my GF is from poland.
okay hear me out
you cannot focus on getting a woman in general
I not doing that lol
Trying to help sb who is on the edge cus i dont like seeing in news that killed him/herself
Okay wait, you’re going to need to rephrase that. I’m not sure I follow
i dont have problem in relation ship im trying to help sb and you give me enough advices
that all kings
Ah, yeah, of course.
And it’s fair, but dude! It’s out of your power
I know it’s sad, but at some point you need to learn to let go of it will swallow you whole
I’m not going to tell you something that’s false, you can’t change the past.
We all need to learn that lesson at some point, that’s why stoicism is so important. There is only two choices, stoicism or insanity and sadness
dude i know im like doing it to the point where i can do it efortlessly(minor normal human student things like chat or help in math or science) if i need to get emotional im out
Time heals what reason cannot @jaruspk remember that