Message from @Kalki-1776

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2019-10-02 16:34:17 UTC  

But yeah,lately I find these " i wanna die " posts fucking frustrating as fuck

2019-10-02 16:35:01 UTC  

here's the basic tenant @jaruspk. you can put EVERYTHING in your life into a binary, things you can change and things you cannot. if you can change the situation, fucking good! if you cant, dont even invest emotionally.

2019-10-02 16:37:03 UTC  

when im driving in the car and my GF starts yelling at me because i made a wrong turn. i just turn around. why should i get upset? what good could it do? can i change how she feels? no

2019-10-02 16:38:00 UTC  

if im at the range and it starts raining, i think "thank the gods i can train in adverse weather"! why not turn a bad situation into mental training

2019-10-02 16:38:41 UTC  

stoic teachings teach us to let go of things we cannot change.

2019-10-02 16:38:52 UTC  

top die inside and come back again

2019-10-02 16:39:41 UTC  

scenica said, men are often more tortured by what is in their minds than what is in the physical world

2019-10-02 16:39:53 UTC  

Ok but at least i tryied im only one who care about her in class so the things like i can do like chat or give her notes from lessobs ill do but im not going to do if full time

2019-10-02 16:40:34 UTC  

alright! well do what you CAN do, but leave it at that

2019-10-02 16:41:33 UTC  

Yee that why asked that other kings like how to do that cus i cant realy talk with gyrlls

2019-10-02 16:41:50 UTC  

and why is that?

2019-10-02 16:42:53 UTC  

I dont know ima like 101001 guy like binary if its science no problem but if its poetry feeling i cant realy understand that

2019-10-02 16:43:19 UTC  

youre in college?

2019-10-02 16:43:25 UTC  

Kinda

2019-10-02 16:43:56 UTC  

Im in poland so that will be like end of highschool and start of studies for ya

2019-10-02 16:44:14 UTC  

oh right on, my GF is from poland.

2019-10-02 16:44:21 UTC  

okay hear me out

2019-10-02 16:44:56 UTC  

you cannot focus on getting a woman in general

2019-10-02 16:45:10 UTC  

I not doing that lol

2019-10-02 16:45:54 UTC  

Trying to help sb who is on the edge cus i dont like seeing in news that killed him/herself

2019-10-02 16:46:57 UTC  

Okay wait, you’re going to need to rephrase that. I’m not sure I follow

2019-10-02 16:49:06 UTC  

i dont have problem in relation ship im trying to help sb and you give me enough advices

2019-10-02 16:49:32 UTC  

that all kings

2019-10-02 16:50:00 UTC  

Ah, yeah, of course.

2019-10-02 16:50:17 UTC  

And it’s fair, but dude! It’s out of your power

2019-10-02 16:50:41 UTC  

I know it’s sad, but at some point you need to learn to let go of it will swallow you whole

2019-10-02 16:51:10 UTC  

I’m not going to tell you something that’s false, you can’t change the past.

2019-10-02 16:52:11 UTC  

We all need to learn that lesson at some point, that’s why stoicism is so important. There is only two choices, stoicism or insanity and sadness

2019-10-02 16:52:14 UTC  

dude i know im like doing it to the point where i can do it efortlessly(minor normal human student things like chat or help in math or science) if i need to get emotional im out

2019-10-02 16:52:49 UTC  

Time heals what reason cannot @jaruspk remember that

2019-10-02 16:52:58 UTC  

that waht kings adviced it helped to day

2019-10-02 16:53:04 UTC  

end of the story

2019-10-02 16:53:48 UTC  

man you are geting too emotionaly right now xD

2019-10-02 16:54:18 UTC  

True, and @jaruspk hang in there. Just remember the tenants of stoic teachings, because they will help you

2019-10-02 16:54:51 UTC  

tried this shiet once and didnt work

2019-10-02 16:55:03 UTC  

I get it, it’s fucked, I’ve lost people I loved too. But time fixes this shit. It absolutely does work.

2019-10-02 16:55:30 UTC  

You gotta get out of the house too. Hit the gym, go to the range, have some fun man

2019-10-02 16:55:37 UTC  

See the sunlight

2019-10-02 16:55:41 UTC  

tha fuck i just try to help A friend

2019-10-02 16:55:59 UTC  

nibba ya too emotional

2019-10-02 16:56:30 UTC  

Yeah man, you cannot let emotions become an obstacle to growth. There is a limit you know?