Message from @Kalki-1776
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give me the low down @jaruspk
long story short she has problems in relationship that ended and her family dont support her and doomer shit
like bf left her and she thinks that he was her love of life time
okay, fair. you can only help her to an extent, but its ultimately not up to you, you need to let go at a certain point
it sounds like youre taking responsibility for something that isnt your fault and something you cannot change
Yea,the attachment you having to saving her could break your heart,and because we appreciate you king we dont want to see your heart broken
Dont fret,helping people in always honorable,and mead will fill your cup in Valhalla,just be wise the cost of your own personal energy
@jaruspk theres a point where something will never be in your hands, if my GF leaves me tomorrow, i know ill be okay because its out of my hands
You mentioned Stoicism,what do you have at hand for me to read/watch ? I'm interested
is it sad? yes. but its realism and stoicism that keeps us sane
yeah, i highly recommend a few books for you gents
mediations by marcus aurelius
it changed my life, im telling you guys, im happier than ever after reading stoic books, ive been wounded so badly ive been home bound for two years, ive had my heart broken, stoic teachings taught be to NEVER quit in the face of absolute death.
ive been on 16 mile ruck marches lead by special forces, puked my guts out at 4 AM
these books validated it all
also read: seneca on the shortness of life
I have that!
the aurelius book
@jaruspk and @Thomatorr, King of Ohio read these guys. you will love them
lets go to books for dummies so admin dont get salty
boom
there are loads of youtube content about stoicism. go check it out, if youre dealing with depression, anxiety, "doomerism", any of that shit. check it out
i meant that channel king
But yeah,lately I find these " i wanna die " posts fucking frustrating as fuck
here's the basic tenant @jaruspk. you can put EVERYTHING in your life into a binary, things you can change and things you cannot. if you can change the situation, fucking good! if you cant, dont even invest emotionally.
when im driving in the car and my GF starts yelling at me because i made a wrong turn. i just turn around. why should i get upset? what good could it do? can i change how she feels? no
if im at the range and it starts raining, i think "thank the gods i can train in adverse weather"! why not turn a bad situation into mental training
stoic teachings teach us to let go of things we cannot change.
top die inside and come back again
scenica said, men are often more tortured by what is in their minds than what is in the physical world
Ok but at least i tryied im only one who care about her in class so the things like i can do like chat or give her notes from lessobs ill do but im not going to do if full time
alright! well do what you CAN do, but leave it at that
Yee that why asked that other kings like how to do that cus i cant realy talk with gyrlls
and why is that?
I dont know ima like 101001 guy like binary if its science no problem but if its poetry feeling i cant realy understand that
youre in college?
Kinda
Im in poland so that will be like end of highschool and start of studies for ya
oh right on, my GF is from poland.
okay hear me out