like she was mad af

but i talked about like shit chat after school and she was ok

like not that edge but more cheerfull like ok but still shit can went down asap but than yuo kings

gona try to talk more mayby that helps but still idk

but shiet is tought if teachers ask me about tha girl if she is ok and so on so on

@jaruspk i highly recommend you study stoicism, its helped me a ton when it comes to relationship issues and almost everything in life. Heres the thing, there's some things you cannot change, that includes other peoples behavior, health, wealth, and culture. all you can change is how you will react to it

nah men i dont have problem in relation ship

im trying to help sb that is fucked by life twice and want to end it

okay and what is SB?

give me the low down @jaruspk

long story short she has problems in relationship that ended and her family dont support her and doomer shit

like bf left her and she thinks that he was her love of life time

okay, fair. you can only help her to an extent, but its ultimately not up to you, you need to let go at a certain point

it sounds like youre taking responsibility for something that isnt your fault and something you cannot change

Yea,the attachment you having to saving her could break your heart,and because we appreciate you king we dont want to see your heart broken

Dont fret,helping people in always honorable,and mead will fill your cup in Valhalla,just be wise the cost of your own personal energy

@jaruspk theres a point where something will never be in your hands, if my GF leaves me tomorrow, i know ill be okay because its out of my hands

You mentioned Stoicism,what do you have at hand for me to read/watch ? I'm interested

is it sad? yes. but its realism and stoicism that keeps us sane

yeah, i highly recommend a few books for you gents

mediations by marcus aurelius

it changed my life, im telling you guys, im happier than ever after reading stoic books, ive been wounded so badly ive been home bound for two years, ive had my heart broken, stoic teachings taught be to NEVER quit in the face of absolute death.

ive been on 16 mile ruck marches lead by special forces, puked my guts out at 4 AM

these books validated it all

also read: seneca on the shortness of life

I have that!

the aurelius book

@jaruspk and @Thomatorr, King of Ohio read these guys. you will love them

lets go to books for dummies so admin dont get salty

stoicism for dummies

boom

there are loads of youtube content about stoicism. go check it out, if youre dealing with depression, anxiety, "doomerism", any of that shit. check it out

i meant that channel king

But yeah,lately I find these " i wanna die " posts fucking frustrating as fuck

here's the basic tenant @jaruspk. you can put EVERYTHING in your life into a binary, things you can change and things you cannot. if you can change the situation, fucking good! if you cant, dont even invest emotionally.

when im driving in the car and my GF starts yelling at me because i made a wrong turn. i just turn around. why should i get upset? what good could it do? can i change how she feels? no

if im at the range and it starts raining, i think "thank the gods i can train in adverse weather"! why not turn a bad situation into mental training

stoic teachings teach us to let go of things we cannot change.

top die inside and come back again

scenica said, men are often more tortured by what is in their minds than what is in the physical world

Ok but at least i tryied im only one who care about her in class so the things like i can do like chat or give her notes from lessobs ill do but im not going to do if full time