Message from @Deleted User
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@vegeta allow?
ok its good to know im not the only one in this chat with a narc
@vegeta she's obligated, not you
My mom isn't the best person. Inhereted her dad's naracssim and aggression.
@vegeta dude, don't let her manipulate your feelings
But she's my mum
@vegeta she has to act like one first
@vegeta you can't be an abuser and a mother at the same time, if you ask me
She looked after me since I was a baby
@vegeta she has to, or else she has to give you away
She's the kind of person who can do no wrong, and has to have something to complain about with every person she meets. Including family.
@vegeta you don't owe her, she made the choices that led to you
@vegeta she has to earn your love, dude
^^^
Usually takes something trivial and blows it up into a huge deal.
The closest thing to a mother I've ever had was my bestfriend
If she can't think of anything to do that with, she'll just make something up and convince herself it's real.
mountains out of molehills
And then will complain about it, yell at you for it. And boast about your problems to strangers, right infront of you
@vegeta your mother doesn't own your thoughts or feelings
while we're talking about this topic i feel bad because im laughing at a vid
She has given me all the attention and love my mother hasn't genuinely given me
and @vegeta its good that you've found someone that can give you that maternal feeling
@vegeta make the best of it until you can get away - make that a goal, and of course always leave that door open for your mother
But I can't get away
I can't look after myself
Yeah
My dad is alright
@vegeta make it a goal, whatever it takes work towards it
Kinda clingy and childish, but I know he cares.
same as my dad
@Deleted User But I need to be looked after.
I can't do shit on my own
@vegeta I'm saying whatever that looks like, make it a goal
I guess I could get one of my friends to look after me.
@vegeta if that means you live with another woman, another family, on your own, whatever
@vegeta get into a better situation and things get better, they did for me anyway