Message from @Szayel's Pooppion
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Those are important values; a lot of religious values are in line with conservative ways of thought. You two growing closer together is important, but it's also important for you to grow closer together with God. If you don't have the same values, it's difficult to really understand one another on a spiritual level.
That’s right. That’s why they’re the most important to me
I think it’s also really important for women to become one with a mans beliefs, or who she sees her future husband as
They say a woman doesn't respect her man if she doesn't respect his beliefs. No two people are the same, but the closer your values are, the closer your doctrine can be.
Of course you'll disagree sometimes, but it's good your spirits are closer.
When I met him we talked about abortion and originally I was pro choice only because I knew a lot of women that get abortions are in poverty, so I thought they may as well have one as to not bring the child up in it. But from our conversation about it I began to see things his way and now am pro life
Yep that’s so true. The first time I watched Ben Shapiro he said something like that
It’s all about the values bc they’re like a peek into the soul
That's awesome that you were open minded enough to let him be able to influence you in a positive way. And that he didn't force it onto you, but let you make up your own mind and come to see things.
Yeah. He did get angry tho lol
Lol, why did he do that?
He holds his values very personal to him
He’s prideful over them
Pride is a large thing amongst many men. 😛
Heheh
I hope I can help him lessen the intensity though
If we get into an argument he doesn’t talk to me for awhile bc his heart hardens over it
Meanwhile I’ve usually already forgiven and moved on
Well, forgiveness is important.
You love him, I'm guessing, right?
Yes
Forgive him for his pride and his heart hardening.
I'm sure he respects you.
Men are stubborn sometimes.
He is respectful of me. And I don’t hold it against him bc I’m very stubborn myself
Talking about theology, spirituality, or anything to do with beliefs can get intense. If he's respectful to you, that shows a lot about his values.
As well as his character.
Yes I truly believe he’s an alpha male too.
We haven’t been talking not only since he’s busy but bc of something like that
So he usually is the one leading?
Yeah
And assertive
He has depression but he still studied hard, goes to school full time
Studies*
Takes care of his responsibilities which I really admire
That is very admirable.
But we haven’t been talking bc he feels I insulted his religion when I didn’t mean to. (The time that I did I was emotional so I probably didn’t word myself correctly) so he hasn’t forgiven me for that. He was actually still willing to talk to me though, just as long as we don’t speak of religion again. But I don’t want to have a relationship like that so I just said I won’t talk to him for however long it takes him
He said he doesn’t know how long it’d take him. But even so was still respectful of me
Try to be patient if you can.
He sounds very willful.