Message from @Stephanie

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2018-04-30 00:11:41 UTC  

Yessss ^

2018-04-30 00:12:24 UTC  

Ultimately, you are in charge

2018-04-30 00:12:30 UTC  

is she the type of woman to accept that?

2018-04-30 00:12:35 UTC  

Or is she a feminist

2018-04-30 00:12:44 UTC  

if she knows you’re in charge then it’s easy

2018-04-30 00:12:59 UTC  

^

2018-04-30 00:13:02 UTC  

Shes not a feminist haha but she does not like being told what to do. But neither do I

2018-04-30 00:13:17 UTC  

No one likes being told what to do

2018-04-30 00:13:32 UTC  

but still she needs to know her place

2018-04-30 00:13:52 UTC  

True

2018-04-30 00:14:06 UTC  

Girls will argue all the time, but if they value you they'll cooperate

2018-04-30 00:14:40 UTC  

If she’s been smoking habitually then she isn’t gonna stop easily so even if she agrees to stop it’s gonna be a challenge

2018-04-30 00:15:11 UTC  

If you tell her to stop and she’s goes on a feminist rant saying you can’t tell her what to do then you have a big problemo

2018-04-30 00:15:31 UTC  

Maybe it would be good to tell her that you care about her and that’s why you need her to stop

2018-04-30 00:15:35 UTC  

Because you want a future with her

2018-04-30 00:17:57 UTC  

Ok...

2018-04-30 00:18:21 UTC  

Yeah she always argues when i bring it up but she has been slowing down throughout the relationship

2018-04-30 00:18:36 UTC  

Argues how?

2018-04-30 00:18:42 UTC  

Does she downplay it that it’s not a big deal?

2018-04-30 00:21:27 UTC  

Honestly just tell her she’s being a degenerate

2018-04-30 00:21:39 UTC  

be nice about it tho

2018-04-30 00:21:53 UTC  

Yeah she doesnt think theres anything wrong with it

2018-04-30 00:22:00 UTC  

that’s an issue then

2018-04-30 00:22:00 UTC  

But it was the life she grew up with

2018-04-30 00:22:21 UTC  

does she think she can be a proper mother and wife by abusing substances ?

2018-04-30 00:22:42 UTC  

Does she prioritize marriage and motherhood?

2018-04-30 00:22:49 UTC  

Well if i bring that up she says she wont do it if we had kids

2018-04-30 00:22:51 UTC  

start there and everything else will come into place

2018-04-30 00:22:57 UTC  

We all have to outgrow childish things.

2018-04-30 00:23:09 UTC  

Yeah I just want her to outgrow it

2018-04-30 00:23:19 UTC  

How old she is?

2018-04-30 00:23:23 UTC  

26

2018-04-30 00:23:38 UTC  

Oh

2018-04-30 00:23:41 UTC  

Wtfffff

2018-04-30 00:23:41 UTC  

lol

2018-04-30 00:24:08 UTC  

Nope

2018-04-30 00:24:29 UTC  

like I’m 20 and I never did any of that stuff and I’ve always been geared towards marriage and motherhood

2018-04-30 00:24:29 UTC  

I mean I guess everyone is different

2018-04-30 00:24:44 UTC  

Did you grow up in a stable household

2018-04-30 00:24:49 UTC  

You need to get her to grow up lol

2018-04-30 00:25:00 UTC  

Me? Ehhh kinda but not really