Message from @Stephanie
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Yessss ^
Ultimately, you are in charge
is she the type of woman to accept that?
Or is she a feminist
if she knows you’re in charge then it’s easy
^
Shes not a feminist haha but she does not like being told what to do. But neither do I
No one likes being told what to do
but still she needs to know her place
True
Girls will argue all the time, but if they value you they'll cooperate
If she’s been smoking habitually then she isn’t gonna stop easily so even if she agrees to stop it’s gonna be a challenge
If you tell her to stop and she’s goes on a feminist rant saying you can’t tell her what to do then you have a big problemo
Maybe it would be good to tell her that you care about her and that’s why you need her to stop
Because you want a future with her
Ok...
Yeah she always argues when i bring it up but she has been slowing down throughout the relationship
Argues how?
Does she downplay it that it’s not a big deal?
Honestly just tell her she’s being a degenerate
Yeah she doesnt think theres anything wrong with it
that’s an issue then
But it was the life she grew up with
does she think she can be a proper mother and wife by abusing substances ?
Does she prioritize marriage and motherhood?
Well if i bring that up she says she wont do it if we had kids
start there and everything else will come into place
We all have to outgrow childish things.
Yeah I just want her to outgrow it
How old she is?
26
Oh
Wtfffff
lol
Nope
like I’m 20 and I never did any of that stuff and I’ve always been geared towards marriage and motherhood
I mean I guess everyone is different
Did you grow up in a stable household
You need to get her to grow up lol
Me? Ehhh kinda but not really