Message from @Reaps
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I literally never write about anyone behind their back and if I do, it's about something I already said to their face (or online) already.
@Deleted User Certain people have a hate-boner for me.
```It's not fun to talk about people behind their backs lol
To me it's deceitful```Not at all - when you're talking with your friends or whatever, we're all on the same page for the most part, so colloquialisms are understood. Insults are just fun colloquialisms in that context.
why, what did you do?
Like things they don't like
chloes got a point
Not in my view
@Reaps
What's going on?
Nvm
besides, if someone is not present do you just never talk about them?
Saw the gif
hahahaha
@Deleted User I mean, thats how I operate unless I'm referring to information they had given me about some relevant topic.
but you never discuss how you feel about someone, with other people? that just sounds to restrictive
No
I don't find it restrictive
because I'm more then willing to say it directly to the person themselves.
I have the opportunity to say what I want to say
Dude, I have to admit something...I like asses, but asses like that is a no no
So it's your fault
somehow.
It is
i'm not saying keep secrets, or be two faced about it.
Lol
you can be honest with them as well
but that doesnt mean you cant discuss them outside of their presence
@Deleted User I just don't really go around talking shit about people behind their back, to me it seems petty and leaves me with no honor
It's how I've always been
Just naturally
That is what I am like
oh yeah, i forgot we were talking about talking shit, i was talking about talking in general and being honest about it
but yeah i agree with you on that
unless you already talk shit to their face, then i dont have a problem talking shit when they arent there
``` I just don't really go around talking shit about people behind their back, to me it seems petty and leaves me with no honor```It's only dishonest if you're being dishonest in what you're saying in your shittalk.
I just think manipulating others view of a person by talking about them without them there to defend themselves isn't right
Because obviously you are going to change peoples views of that person based on what you say
and without them there to give their rebuttal
it seems unfair
@Chloé Adsolution You might not have a fair representation of them.