@starrfoxx123 so... you defeat your own argument. Its down to the society and culture of the couple

I probably won't get married simply because it seems like a pointless ritual and wouldn't in any way impact my love for my SO

if the couple truly love eachother it can last

Marriage isn't inherently bad, it just demands the kind of character that is uncommon these days.

People shouldn't get married until they're like 40

love is not what keeps a marriage together and it should not be the sole purpose of marriage

I'd say 30

dont leave it to 40

There's no fucking way you found your soulmate after like 3 years on the market c'mon people

Do you people want a bunch of retarded kids running around

marriage used to be about kids until women changed it to make it about themselves

Best to distinguish between love and infatuation/lust.

Women should not have kids that old

I was just adding in formation for @M4Gunner that some people make it last more than 20 years I said nothing about things not lasting years 20 @Dwarforn

Marriages are an excuse for women to do woman things like micromanage their appearance

it might be a part of the rise in autism we are seeing

My opinion is out on getting married, because why would I allow the state to get involved in my life more than necessary?

women that can't stand being married because of their husband maybe should've more carefully picked their partner

@Fitzydog yea that too

people can make a relationship last for ages if they know damn well what they doing and actually make them work

Erm, can I say one more thing about the whole Russian film thing?

@Werlf so never ?

studies show that right-wing marriages usually last longer on average

yeah

Yeah that doesn’t surprises me at all that right wing relationships last longer

I think being married actually contributes to unhappiness in the relationship because you're basically conceding that you'll be stuck with the same person forever (supposedly) and it highlights their character flaws that much more

@radeon the point of marriage is to work together to try and smooth out the rough edges

its working with each other to fix those flaws

not the point but a byproduct

Yeah, your "problem" is actually a feature

And whites marry at a high rate, your point? @Dwarforn

Something I'm conflicted about is the matter of excellently-crafted Russian films that exalt not necessarily the Communist government but do depict the Russian soldier fighting to protect his country in WW2 movies in a positive light.

Yea but that almost never happens marrying someone to improve your relationship is a bad idea

Domestic rape isn’t a problem, it’s just a feature <:pepe_smug:378719408341909506>

@Deleted User that was my point

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I hate you, now that I'm stuck with you forever it will get better ... ?

nobodys saying that

@radeon Who's the fucktard who showed you that example?

if you're in a marriage and see flaws then you try and work with each other to fix it

@radeon that’s not exactly how it works if you don’t think it can last don’t fucking marry then