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But it's a big deal. I'm terrified of finding someone, having children and then being betrayed.
It's why my wife doesn't use birth control
I understand completely
You are a good woman don't settle on character
Just find a healthy ok looking man who has morals
And support him
I thought I did. You think you know someone and they surprise you by being a lie.
Yes
I have had that happen often
Been engaged like four times
Once you have kids as a woman there's no going back. You are forever tainted if it goes bad.
It's true
It's why this new world so bad for women
Which is crazy
Especially if you just rely on his income being a stay at home. The horror of it going to shit.
I know you don't like CRP but he is pretty dead on with that stuff
The big thing is planning on the one income
And not cutting corners
That's why I make.so much food from scratch
It's cheaper and goes further
CRP is a faggot
But I don't think those points are incorrect
Maybe but he is right about a couple things.
Broken clock and so on
And he is the only person addressing it from a perspective of experience
And not traddy larping
Trad larpers are hilarious
Sure but I just find a man preaching about morals sketchy when he himself cucked another man.
Absolutely
Yes, they are embarrassing. They really don't understand how a big deal it is. The responsibility.
However, he is ruthless which I can appreciate his openness about.
I prefer the tiger to the snake in the grass.
I feel my stakes are higher as a woman. It's important I don't fuck up on choosing a husband. Lol but I did dodge a bullet so I should count my blessings.
Sorry. I made an apparently imflamatory statement and then left. I guess to me there is an ocean, a continent, and another ocean's difference between some woman who made and presumably still makes bad relationship decisions, let some guy get her pregnant, and let him walk away. That guy is laughting at you the whole time you are raising his kid and will likely do the same. On the other hand. Some woman who got married, had a kid and then something terrible happened. Disease, plane crash, killed in the line of duty, etc. Raising that guys kid I have no problem with.
It was somehting I had to think on real hard when I finally got the self esteem to start dating in my mid twenties.
I had my first love pass away in a motorcycle accident. I'm glad I didn't have children. Thank God, but we were very young.
I didn't realize you were inflammatory
I am a kind but cruel person.
Well, you guys went on about it is what I meant.
Sorry if I offended you, indirectly.