It is for me because the fundamental bond was my blood.

Just find someone with a kid who's dad died heroically or of cancer or something.

If that was a lie, then the relationship is a farce.

True.

And I would be just some cuck raising a whore's child.

And fuck that tbqh

@Grumplebee raising dysgenic kids lol

I do think being a step parent can be honorable if done right.

Yes if you are barren or impotent

And there is a widow/widower situation

Or if my relatives died and their kids were not mulattos and needed to be raised

If I end up dating someone who already has a child and they are no longer with the mom due to death or infidelity I would be with him. If I truly loved him.

It is harder for a woman in many ways

Your time line is so tight really

And the longer you go without child the shorter it gets

My thoughts exactly

Lol I'm already 27 will be 28 in March.

There was a study done by Cornell or Columbia about it

It really makes you thonk

Basically a woman exponentially loses more egg follicles

The longer she goes without getting pregnant

By the time you are 18 you have lost a third of your potential fertility

On average

But it's a big deal. I'm terrified of finding someone, having children and then being betrayed.

It's why my wife doesn't use birth control

I understand completely

You are a good woman don't settle on character

Just find a healthy ok looking man who has morals

And support him

I thought I did. You think you know someone and they surprise you by being a lie.

Yes

I have had that happen often

Been engaged like four times

Once you have kids as a woman there's no going back. You are forever tainted if it goes bad.

It's true

It's why this new world so bad for women

Which is crazy

Especially if you just rely on his income being a stay at home. The horror of it going to shit.

I know you don't like CRP but he is pretty dead on with that stuff

The big thing is planning on the one income

And not cutting corners