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@Adderall Admiral52 I was raised with a single mother, that sounds like how I was when I was young lol

@Szayel's Pooppion My mother was largely absent for the latter part of my childhood. She worked out of state, and worked a lot. I was raised mostly by my dad, and he tried his best (and still does) but wasn't perfect. I acted terribly irresponsibly for several years lol.

Hm at the same time sounds better to be raised by a dad more than a mom

but either way, it's not the correct order of things, you need both

and unnatural for women to be working, but esp so much

I have no complaints whatsoever. I look back with mostly fond memories.

My old man put her through college, and then she got a few jobs working a bunch.

that's good that you don't. No matter what happens it's important we don't resent

The most that I ever do with my past is remember well the hardships

those things were meant to happen to me so I accept it

I don't think about the past too much. For the most part it has no bearing on the future, and even if it does it won't change anything. What's happened has happened.

I hadn't thought about it so much not long ago, but more recently I have been

for that reason actually, something that happened in my past did evidently have bearing on my future

But it's unchangeable. What has happened is done forever. I just don't worry about it. I'll deal with what comes as it comes.

I know it is, it's just hard to deal with when it does come back to haunt you

but that's why in a situation like that it feels worse, bc you know it's unchangeable

So for the most part, I agree about the past. But on the same token I learned that some things that happen may have lasting consequences that follow you, so coping with that can be different

I don't know your situation, and I can't speak on it, but I take solace knowing that everything I've done was done by me. Everything that's bad, while it sucks, is at least no one's fault but my own. I have no one to blame but myself for what happens, good or bad, and that's comforting, if that makes any sense.

i don't believe in blame

or that anything is anyones fault

That makes sense. What if it was something external that happened to you though?

special circumstances

There's still influence I have over the situation. I used to box, and really it's not about getting punched, but how you take the punch and punch back. I figure that's true for life as well.

Right, how you deal with it

In the end it's out of our control but esp in external situations

and internal

I view it as, if God didn't intervene, then he meant it to happen

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