but that's why in a situation like that it feels worse, bc you know it's unchangeable

So for the most part, I agree about the past. But on the same token I learned that some things that happen may have lasting consequences that follow you, so coping with that can be different

I don't know your situation, and I can't speak on it, but I take solace knowing that everything I've done was done by me. Everything that's bad, while it sucks, is at least no one's fault but my own. I have no one to blame but myself for what happens, good or bad, and that's comforting, if that makes any sense.

i don't believe in blame

or that anything is anyones fault

That makes sense. What if it was something external that happened to you though?

special circumstances

There's still influence I have over the situation. I used to box, and really it's not about getting punched, but how you take the punch and punch back. I figure that's true for life as well.

Right, how you deal with it

In the end it's out of our control but esp in external situations

and internal

I view it as, if God didn't intervene, then he meant it to happen

😛

@Dilan dude come here

Already came long ago

Dude

Didn’t you see me ???

@Dilan

Here is his number. Call him when he streams and subscribe to his channel 😃

888-775-3773

https://www.youtube.com/user/BONDActionInc/featured

and

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLrVxw4H4ZJ3LovpdbzF7bw

Thanks so much dude, so you@still can’t do any calls ?

Because of your broken phone ?

Ye lel

I might buy a new phone in the far future

No calls ?

Ye, no calls cuz my phone is broken 😦

Omg

Why did it break

Its software is corrupted

Then fix it lol take it to a repairing n store

I did but the software is very hard to find.

The dude from repair store could not repair it 😦

I see, well are you on pc now ?

ye

There must be a way for us to@speak

You don’t have an headset ?

Or ear bugs