How you define success is up for debate.

There are no absolutes man. Just ferverant ideological clinging saying such.

@Deleted User yeah, what you mean by feverant idealogical cling saying such?

Yeah... I attended church, had a lot of family/friends and went clubbing/drinking all the time just a month ago but now I am living alone in a new city trying to figure life out.

@Deleted User yee

Fuck looking for absolute truths. Why do you need this self imposed structure anyway? @bigboi I mean principals and virtues are basicly arbitrary and given by society. To me mgtow is giving yourself your own values and identity.

Careful going to church brother, it’s still full of blue pilled men & thots

because the reason why i think there may be an absolute truth for what motivates us to do things, is that there must be a cause and effect relationship starting from our brain wiring of which propagates to the actions/ behaviours that we do every day

Your own direction and way. GYOW from it all. Not just women and what gynocracy expects

@Deleted User for some people, they find purpose in searching for absolute undeniable truths

@Deleted User yeah man

@Rhunespire I call that existential denial. I see it in people and they are still visibly uncomfortable. Found a meaning but its yet another conditioning.

Perhaps

There being no right or wrong way to do life is too much I think for many. Freedom is terrifying.

Terrifying? Sure, anything worth doing is. But the journey liberates the mind and the soul.

Yup. I'm just ok with their being no true meaning and living minimally.

Not getting caught up in anything anymore

You sound like a nihilist

i mean i think it's nice to know that your beliefs are built open facts and logic, thus leading to you knowing that your actions can be reasoned to yourself as being optimal. else one would always think in the back of their brain "am i doing the right thing"

Not saying you are.

I mean the "right thing" is subjective

The journey only gets better as you go your own way, or I’m just weird lol

Nihilism is a incontinent truth and it only gets a bad rap because again, it doesnt fill that hole of purpose most have.

Why people end up drawn to any kind of authority figure. For structure and purpose.

Most dont know that they can give themselves purpose.

*inconvenient

Hence why the light in the cave is more true than most are willing to admit

^true i suppose, but i view nihilism as a way to plan the next step in a world that is, not that wants to be

But even nihilists can have a purpose even if just to exist mininally. What is important to me, relatively is being ok with it which I am.

@Mr.Black ye, but what if one could somehow know what specfic combination of chemicals result in optimal happiness, and thus can live their life to result in one receiving that desirable mix of chemical

chemicals*

I feel like nihilism only exists when you can’t accept reality for what it is

Life is a open world sandbox game man

Nothing more

because if were to know that humans are wired to optimise the happiness endured, then we can work backwards from there to then know what results in happiness being felt

Their isn't, because we are all built differently, and if their was it would be miss used

I view nihilism like I view suicide - for the weak because they are unwilling to accept reality or are otherwise impotent.

In my mind

Accept your reality

Reality is what I make it.

I think, there for i am