I mean I've done Christmas with my friend's family but that's only because they're really close friends

I can honestly say _I_ haven't done it

but that'd also require me to bring a woman, and I wouldn't do that because I know my family would drive her nuts with questions

lol ya I can imagine the same happening

but if your trying to get married some day you're gonna have to do it eventually

I actually just found out yet another guy I went to high school with is getting married

I can only remember seeing one or two people I went to HS with getting married

but since I don't speak to any of them... I don't care

oh I only speak to one guy from high school but I always end up hearing about it or seeing on social media

also I only spent two years in high school

I spent seven years dealing with these people
and truthfully I'd be nervous about being at a party with them

I can't imagine my showing up and telling all of them, "my god you people haven't changed a bit" would go over well

What is South Dakota like?

windy. cold. and for most of the state: flat

What is North Dakota like?

the exact same

but colder

White

W. a few Amerindians.

tbh though

I don't think we all have to be constantly looking for dates

well obviously not if you can keep a woman

that'd be polygamy

I personally think men should have their shit together if they want a relationship

Jacob you seem like the type that has his shit together.

😬

Do you over think everything?

no

see, I take the approach of, "punch the button and see what happens next"

tfw you live in an actual frozen wilderness with all men and lesbians lmao 😅

well ya I kinda do sometimes lol

but not in this case

well I dated a girl from MN once Ape and I can confirm that she at least was not a lesbian

Girls don’t care if you have everything together. Very few people have everything together.

I care though

@Salo Saloson True. It's more about being in the bush than being in Minnesota, which is paradise outside of the Somali colony.

that is quite true, Ape. if you DO meet the young woman in question, be sure to tell her to stay the hell away from my car's brakes

idk fam I respect what you're saying, but I feel like my grades would plummet if I started worrying about relationships

But on some level I love the wild more than dating. I make choices and own them.

or maybe she's calmed down since five years ago

@Jacob there you go overthinking it.