finally confided in me a couple days back

Its not that, its what you said, your friend prefers the status quo. You cant change that yourself, youll tease out emotions and have no ifea what to do with the mess you made

his mom just drained his fuckin bank accounts bruh

college savings

poof

And you can get that back?

I was like you, and I made enough messes I couldn't fix beyond be a shoulder to cry on. You'll feel worse for it and change nothing

Youll make him feel worse and change nothing

or i could just

call them

His parents and reletives?

nah cps

or 12

as much as i hate them

don't be a hero

If you think you can get him to do it himself by all means, other than that, no

idk not looking out for people basically clashes against my own ideology

im the kinda person that looks out for my own

dk if that makes me obnoxious to be around

At this point you arent looking afyer your own, you're trying to look after your ego

Talk to him and try to get his balls back, if thay doesn't work then cut your losses

>Asking for courage opinions in a /g related discord

Gotta agree with frum tho, you're not looking for your friend, but yourself. Else this discussion wouldn't have happened.

Nah, I dont mean it like that, I mean in a literal sense of seeing his friends as an extention of his self. There's nothing wrong in that, and he is trying to help but some things you just need take a back seat to let someone else fix thier problems.

suck his dick, he will feel better afterwards

told him to do what works for me when people are batshit insane

1) Apologize for everything, whether purely contrived or not

2) Wait for them to break down, remember that theyre supposed to love you

3) Hug

4) Talk about feewings

5) Let them sleep

repeat every few months

this works especially if parental units get violent with you

bc that generates enough cognitive dissonance to let them fall apart all by themselves

Do we enforce global rule 2 here?

jokes on u im 18

that's dumb

tell him to be honest

youve clearly never had a batshit crazy mom bro

agree and sympathize

My stepmother was fucking nuts