Or if you think you can stand having your nuts dragged across broken glass then go and be a hero

yes there are people with victim complexes who would rather complain bitterly and recieve empty sympathy for their percieved plight

but this man

he aint like that

he's always been chipper and driven and a joy to be around

but recently it's like he's faded

his face seems almost hollowed out

like it's made of wax

he's stopped combing his hair, wearing clothes that fit

finally confided in me a couple days back

Its not that, its what you said, your friend prefers the status quo. You cant change that yourself, youll tease out emotions and have no ifea what to do with the mess you made

his mom just drained his fuckin bank accounts bruh

college savings

poof

And you can get that back?

I was like you, and I made enough messes I couldn't fix beyond be a shoulder to cry on. You'll feel worse for it and change nothing

Youll make him feel worse and change nothing

or i could just

call them

His parents and reletives?

nah cps

or 12

as much as i hate them

don't be a hero

If you think you can get him to do it himself by all means, other than that, no

idk not looking out for people basically clashes against my own ideology

im the kinda person that looks out for my own

dk if that makes me obnoxious to be around

At this point you arent looking afyer your own, you're trying to look after your ego

Talk to him and try to get his balls back, if thay doesn't work then cut your losses

>Asking for courage opinions in a /g related discord

Gotta agree with frum tho, you're not looking for your friend, but yourself. Else this discussion wouldn't have happened.

Nah, I dont mean it like that, I mean in a literal sense of seeing his friends as an extention of his self. There's nothing wrong in that, and he is trying to help but some things you just need take a back seat to let someone else fix thier problems.

suck his dick, he will feel better afterwards

told him to do what works for me when people are batshit insane

1) Apologize for everything, whether purely contrived or not

2) Wait for them to break down, remember that theyre supposed to love you

3) Hug

4) Talk about feewings

5) Let them sleep

repeat every few months