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i have reason to believe that a friend of mine is subject to sustained abuse at the hands of a divorced parent
wat do
Nothing, if your friend hasent done anything then he is a victem and will prefer to stay that way
you say that but i think youre either meming or incredibly sheltered
the only thing the human mind hates more than pain is the disruption of the status quo
youd be surprised what people get used to
I have a low tolerance for problems people can fix themselves but choose not to, just disengage and save yourself some pain
this is what depression looks like
Or if you think you can stand having your nuts dragged across broken glass then go and be a hero
yes there are people with victim complexes who would rather complain bitterly and recieve empty sympathy for their percieved plight
but this man
he aint like that
he's always been chipper and driven and a joy to be around
but recently it's like he's faded
his face seems almost hollowed out
like it's made of wax
he's stopped combing his hair, wearing clothes that fit
finally confided in me a couple days back
Its not that, its what you said, your friend prefers the status quo. You cant change that yourself, youll tease out emotions and have no ifea what to do with the mess you made
his mom just drained his fuckin bank accounts bruh
poof
And you can get that back?
I was like you, and I made enough messes I couldn't fix beyond be a shoulder to cry on. You'll feel worse for it and change nothing
Youll make him feel worse and change nothing
or i could just
call them
His parents and reletives?
nah cps
or 12
as much as i hate them
don't be a hero
If you think you can get him to do it himself by all means, other than that, no
idk not looking out for people basically clashes against my own ideology
im the kinda person that looks out for my own
dk if that makes me obnoxious to be around
At this point you arent looking afyer your own, you're trying to look after your ego
Talk to him and try to get his balls back, if thay doesn't work then cut your losses
>Asking for courage opinions in a /g related discord
Gotta agree with frum tho, you're not looking for your friend, but yourself. Else this discussion wouldn't have happened.
Nah, I dont mean it like that, I mean in a literal sense of seeing his friends as an extention of his self. There's nothing wrong in that, and he is trying to help but some things you just need take a back seat to let someone else fix thier problems.