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Kids are a ton of work, no doubt.
And it's super cliche to say, but I wouldn't trade it. Even though I waited till 35 to have my first.
just doesn't sound like my sort of thing, that's all
It's not for everyone, I mean, just look at the world.
You should only have a kid if you want them.
raise good kids, change the world
it doesn't have to stay crappy
gota make a stand
as far as having them.....even people that do want them...it comes at you fast
somehow you roll with it and it all works out fine
I cant even sort myself out
Hey everyone, just getting back after some travels
I heard you got banned @-stupidface-
Time for another account! 😛
How's it going @Donut Steel Tendies
Howdy
Out of curiosity how did you find this server?
r/exredpill
Hey there @Bustin Loose , welcome aboard
Sup bois. Found this on r/exredpill. I'm down for this. I've just started doing day game but as me.... No PUA shit just standard direct day game. If this discord remains active and fat we could start where mystery and style left off with some more honest shit. You won't convert red pillers if you've not much to offer. They crave juicy field reports. One that sucked me in was a guy talking about his 'plate' when wiping off his jizz off her chest she asked 'I wonder if counselling will help with my husband'.
my main concern is I have nothing to offer these guys. i have very little experience, I am a beta chode that's finally growing some balls. I have nothing juicy to convince them
As of now the red pill has 266k subscribers. If you want to make a real difference I think lilly on the exredpill post has a point. To make something to counter it. i wonder if infield day game on a youtube channel would help? Most of the redpill guys I imagine are just sat indoors seething with approach anxiety/social anxiety induced rage.
As a side I'm a massive nerd. I've constructed a spreadsheet that I'm filling in with my progression with girls. Hoping it will give some 'stats' for the cause
Would be decent to speak to some guys who have had the same experience as me. I'm UK based, what times are you bois on? I'm guessing you're all across the pond?
@IntAnon I can get behind this 'We need to teach young men that while they should be alpha, they should also be smart and look to their ancestors.'. If we promote growing some big old balls with a backbone and stay true to your morals I think that's a concept that can easily be sold. Hardcore self development too.
Also if anyone wants to play video games hit me up. Down for dota players.
The whole alpha/beta thing is a false dichotomy I think and the best way to begin self improvement would be to ditch that entirely, in my opinion.
yeah I get you man. 'tank' is my preferred adjective
'absolute unit'
And the attention from women is also an inaccurate way to measure success. Harmful, even
Take me, for example
While I am bit on the shorter side and skinny I have decent looks and I do have some attention from women. However, if all was fine in my life I wouldn't be here.
Trouble is though is it is a direct indicator of improvement. BUT I know what you mean. The moment you hit a drought with girls your self esteem/happiness goes down
That is actually true with any social rejection
I'm saying this as someone who didn't have a friendship that would last to this day
What do you mean my man?
Weak friendships? If so, I'm in the same boat. Once uni ends, my social circle will crumble
Women aren't the only ones that can hurt your self esteem
Bro I'd chat but I can't go on the mic. Small house problems xD You about tomorrow?