Uni stress never helps

best way to call it would be "Fuck the world, I'll just live alone"

Hahahaha you made me laugh tubby thanks

right now I'm transitioning from this to "maybe I will let someone into my cold dead heart if they bring cookies"

@Maria Matthew Hmm, well was the base that was the problem or just some flaws around it?

I guess the base

I think people can change, it just requires a lot of work and commitment on their part

Otherwise what we're doing here in this group is pointless 😃

Like I said previously, there was love but he did a lot of BS that's pretty though to forgive

@Maria Matthew no worries. You're dealing with some weird ass shit for a 20 year old xD

@Maria Matthew What was the base exactly? Did you have common values, interests and dreams together that were separate from the red pill

Hahaha I was actually 18 when I met him

Yes of course

We had the same goals, interests, and I thought we had the same values but if he acted like that, I guess not

believe it or not but I probably have even more boundaries when it comes to physical contact than you do @Maria Matthew so it's not really a male/female thing

Has he already denounced the red pill @Maria Matthew ?

Yes he did

If he has denounced it, committed to change, and the same foundational values are still there then I don't see anything wrong. Totally understand how it can be tough being with someone who has to go through a lot of change and self work

@Donut Steel Tendies It's reassuring to hear

The foundational values are not the same since he acted like he did

He may have broke the values in the past, but does he still break them in the present?

No but that's what @-stupidface- talked about, constructing on moving sands

I've seen some TRPers really change for the better, that's all I'm saying.

You'll have to determine if the moving sands are truly moving

No one leaves red pill insecurities though

shit will be eating at his mind

If they're foundational, or if he's just becoming a better person and screwed up in the past

@tubby wdym ?

@tubby I think it's possible. After all, that's what we're all here for. I've seen people change

I was red pill. Not 100% has washed away

You don't just simply swallow the pill

Which beliefs of TRP do you still carry in you ?

Mine is 95% flushed to be honest

I was TRP has well. You definitely keep some aspects of it. You have trust problems with women and you're skeptical. But do you think it still continues beyond the inner workings?

So I can't entirely relate

yeah skeptical is a good way of putting it.

then again, I probably started earlier

Oh, I definitely have trust problems with women

that's why I'm not in a relationship lol

Haha is it because of bad past experiences or just coming from TRP ?

Both