Message from @IntAnon
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prosperous in perhaps a material sense
obviously
god I'm starting to feel guilty for my plans xD
hahaha
@IntAnon Building a strong and beautiful family is the main project of a lot of women. Think about little girls, playing with fake babies, playing "family", dreaming of the Prince Charming. Every woman carries that in her heart but due to society's circumstances, women are pushed to be tougher, to be working women, to have the same aspirations as man. In fact, we can see that women are getting more masculine by the day by their attitude, way of dressing,... And men are becoming more feminine, more in their attitude of course : problems to take a decision, afraid of commitment, less hardworking than the past generations, more worried about their appearance,...
I understand that it would be best to but I really really really really don't want children
Don't feel forced. I think It will just come very naturally
How old are you ?
yeah the media influence is to make women have to feel like they need to have these high roles like CEO and "you can do everything they can", but I think this sort of stuff harms women more than anything
But should I feel guilty if I still don't want that when I'm 40?
we have the gender roles for a reason
how do you know you won't?
You should never feel guilty
haha
Yeah I think it's more of a team effort between husband and wife; what was once the man's projects becomes their projects -- and vice versa. So it's about combining into one unit thats way more powerful than before, rather than fighting over what gets focus
perhaps you have another mission in life, it has to come naturally 😃
@Donut Steel Tendies what do you mean im a huge supporter!
In terms of gender roles I think some men will want to go for feminine things and vice versa and I think that's fine
it's not exactly a natural thing though, it's a byproduct of the media influence and that kind of thing
@-stupidface- I may have misunderstood what your username+avatar meant :p
@Donut Steel Tendies this is my name because i don't give a fuck...and thats my picture because HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
these people are pushing this stuff, we have to assert that this is not what is best for us
It's fine, if you put them in a jungle at age 5 and they become like that alone. It's not fine when it's completely planned and pushed by the media
There have always been outliers in all societies and I think it's fine
but things definitely have gotten to an insane level nowadays
what's not fine is when poeple are pushed into being outliers
the outlier has become the norm
at least that's what they're trying
I'm saying that as someone with traditionally very masculine interests and hobbies
Every thing that's natural is fine, if people are not in the "norm" just because they are like that it's totally fine and beautiful. It's not beautiful when it has been pushed on them by 10000 external sources
I wonder who's behind all these external forces 🤔
THE JUUUICEEEE
anyways, we definitely need to find a good people to enter a union with and have lots of children
@IntAnon people hell bent on destroying the civilized western world.
That's the grand scale. If you have a lot of money to pay for it and all that, I'd certainly encourage having a ton of kids, like over 10 as insane as that could sound.
I'll take my example, I have always been extremely feminine since I was very little. At age 14, I saw those cool woman, more androgyne looking and started to be this way for a bit because I saw that it was becoming the norm. Now, I am my feminine self and that's what I feel is natural and I love it
That's nice to hear
@Deleted User hahahaha that's insane
I think this discord server is off to a great and productive start
I think too 😃