Message from @IntAnon
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consider it
Taking the good, leaving the bad
I'm 20
finding the right person I'd even trust is hard enough for me and haveing kids that would rely on me terrifies me
Mine was completely absent from my life, I was raised by my mom who brought several abusive guys in our house. I can tell you that I almost hated men. But that's not the right attitude, our deceptive past can't dictate our future. You should want one day to construct this beautiful family that you wish you had
We are just 20
don't put pressure on yourself right now
I never wished to have a family in the first place
You think loneliness is the solution ?
that's a false dychotomy
I don't need a family to not feel lonely
I understand, you can have friends, relatives,...
in fact many lonely men are married with families
I agree
All the people I know who didn't have kids or a wife are pretty unhappy. Not that I'm saying you need kids to be happy, but I think almost everyone does. Like @Deleted User said, let nature run its course. But be sure its nature and not externalities
It takes a while, but the regret does set in
But finding the right person and starting a life together, I think that's a whole new level of personal hapiness
I think it's best to start on it young, I can understand being weary, but in the long run is better
I have a far less of a dramatic view of starting a life I guess
can we at least agree that it is possible that it might not be the path to happiness for me?
For sure
It's 100% possible
anything is a possibility
If my views on that change I swear I will do as it's best for me
When I look at what we sort of need today, it's good parents
That's the very best any of us can do @Donut Steel Tendies
I actually agree
but pressuring people into parenthood won't result into good parents
we need to be smarter about that
There's not enough of them in this day and age, the children that are being made nowadays are out of wedlock and all that, I think we need all that we can get.
People being pressured into not being parents I think is a much bigger problem, the media is trying to stigmatize parenthood and make it seem like parents are miserable people
be less along the lines of "save muh white race" and more towards "hey, having a family is a legitimate way to see your future"
I see this crisis as a cultural, not a race problem
I just don't want this place to get undercut, the media does generally try to promote bringing down the birth rate and all that, not just among the racial lines
soon noone will care about MSM so I wouldn't worry about it too much
viewrates are dropping dramatically
Either way, let's not get too off track. The point is to help young men (and women) lost in the red pill and get them on the right track
I don't think we got too far off track
I can't count how many people I've hurt via the Red Pill, so it's a very personal fight for me
I understand