Message from @TheNobody

Discord ID: 519491696048734208


2018-12-01 22:57:27 UTC  

"Gender issues"
Not a lot to deal with here.

2018-12-02 06:30:03 UTC  

<:GWragTbhfam:390321741525942272>

2018-12-02 06:30:08 UTC  

I disagree

2018-12-02 06:30:36 UTC  

I think this is 1 of the biggest problems we have by far

2018-12-02 18:19:58 UTC  

I think that idea is a sign we have fucked up priorities

2018-12-03 05:48:36 UTC  

I think it is pretty fucked up when people start to believe their own shit

2018-12-03 05:48:47 UTC  

Like the wage gap

2018-12-03 05:49:05 UTC  

What about the wage gap?

2018-12-03 05:49:18 UTC  

It’s non existent

2018-12-03 05:56:43 UTC  

Depends on the criteria. Overall there is, 0.81 female to 1.00 male.
However, peer to peer it barely registers (plus or minus 3 cents.)
Problem is gender dominated employment such as farming, construction, and such.
When women want to do the hard, risky work I will give them some their right to bitch.
https://www.bls.gov/cps/cpsaat37.htm

2018-12-03 07:28:15 UTC  

The problem is that they bitch

2018-12-03 16:00:51 UTC  

hahahaha

2018-12-03 16:00:54 UTC  

😂

2018-12-03 16:39:27 UTC  

"BY THE END OF HER LIFE, THE AVERAGE WOMAN WILL HAVE A NEGATIVE FISCAL IMPACT OF $150,000"

2018-12-04 04:14:02 UTC  

women are discriminated against, men are somehow not valued as much as women at the same time, and if you believe that tumblr has any knowledge when it comes to actual feminism, mental illness and gender then you are a retard. 🤷‍♀️🤠

2018-12-04 04:14:32 UTC  

lol

2018-12-04 04:14:47 UTC  

Intresting opinion

2018-12-04 12:27:38 UTC  

I believe men and women can never be equal

2018-12-04 12:34:32 UTC  

Yeah

2018-12-04 12:42:28 UTC  

Sexual Dimorphism is a thing.

Part that pisses me off is the ladies scream bloody murder about how they have it so bad, yet them seem to have no problem wraping gents around their finger.

2018-12-04 13:01:34 UTC  

Yes

2018-12-04 13:01:53 UTC  

Agreed

2018-12-04 17:35:25 UTC  

Bit of a generalisation right there

2018-12-04 17:36:29 UTC  

@The Lemon always

2018-12-04 21:32:20 UTC  

If guys weren’t always so thirsty they couldn’t be wrapped around fingers... and 9 out of 10 cards are stacked against women and were wrong for playing the one that we consistently have?

2018-12-04 21:51:58 UTC  

I mean that's only partly true

2018-12-04 21:52:07 UTC  

It's become more equal in recent years

2018-12-04 21:52:26 UTC  

But I'll agree women still have the worse time

2018-12-04 21:52:56 UTC  

But men often don't get the attention they deserve

2018-12-04 21:53:24 UTC  

Like 3/4 of suicides being men

2018-12-04 21:53:40 UTC  

Prostate cancer getting a fraction of the funding for research that breast cancer gets

2018-12-04 21:53:49 UTC  

Emotional openness and toxic masculinity

2018-12-04 22:04:13 UTC  

Toxic masculinity is a plague, I think it hurts men and women (men much more so)

2018-12-04 22:04:26 UTC  

Sadly biology makes us horny bastards, and yes it a great way to control us. Wish that wasn't true, but self control is hard for most folks.


Don't give me this crap about everything being loaded against you. I don't have any rights that you don't, and the world isn't fair to anyone!

2018-12-04 22:04:28 UTC  

I wish there was more done from all of society to fight it

2018-12-04 22:06:26 UTC  

I’m not saying you have more rights, I’m just saying some of the systemic challenges we have to face make it much more difficult for us to exercise our rights

2018-12-04 22:15:08 UTC  

EVERYONE has challenges, just ask any group of people...

Can I discuss this with you later? I happen to be a bit pissy at the moment (nothing you did) and don't want to throw the hate hammer by accident.

For when I return, please give me your definition of "toxic masculinity."

2018-12-04 22:21:01 UTC  

@Tyberius D deal, and I truly just want to discuss I promise I won’t throw a hate hammer at you even if I strongly disagree if you do the same with me deal?

I’m probably going to log off soon, but here’s my first volley at a definition:

Toxic masculinity is where a man or men are shamed for showing emotions or desires that don’t align with what has traditionally been labeled as masculinity.

Examples, not being able to express emotions including fear, sadness or insecurity.

Preferring a sweet drink over a beer, not enjoying hunting, or violence. Taking pride in own appearance, showing vulnerability.

Boys don’t cry, anything that a man could lose a “man card” for doing

2018-12-04 22:30:11 UTC  

Sure thing, I'm already coming down.

I wouldn't argue that's toxic, just traditional. I do think men need some form of self-identity, but there are a number of things there that I don't think have to be on that list.

I guess TM doesn't effect me because I have no problem doing things I want. I'm usually pretty happy to have a reason to tell someone to shove it.

Side note, if there is TM then I think there is also a Toxic Feminity. Great example, men can sleep around but the ladies shouldn't. Either we should all be able to sleep around or should exercise restraint.