6 months then i'll be at operational capacity again

163kg when I got here 5 months ago, 125kg now and looking OK

feeling better as well

Thank God for moms

shit man - cudos to you for loosing all that weight

@Oupoes bro if it wasn't for my mom i'd be hanging from a rope a while back

GG @Oupoes, you just advanced to level 3!

163kg tells me you were comfort feeding - so you could not of been a happy chap

@Oupoes Yeah wasn't in a good place, the divorce wasn't surprising

and now that you down to 125 says you are on the path of recovery - good job

did you have kids

@Oupoes jeez thankfully not dude

would have made things 100x worse

allowed me to eject a bit out of society and come recover

yeah we had 1 child - she was 4 when we got divorced - very very ugly

@Oupoes That sucks dude 😦

nothing fun about this whole process

but hey we all turned out fine later on

@Oupoes it's like losing someone to death, you know.

sucks

believe me when i say i feel you you brother

@Oupoes definitely made me self reflect though, and identify stuff that was wrong

still think about it

you will for a long time - thats part of the healing process

how are thing between you and your ex

now! i mean to say

@Oupoes I kind of cut off communication or contact

There aren't kids, so no need to dwell I guess

wow - it like i am talking to a mirror buddy

Try to avoid thinking about it in my head as well

all i know is it gets better rather quickly

Ya it's been like 6 months or so now

it's definitely better, I even looked at a dating app

but everyone has kids

lol

but dont be to eager to get back on the saddle of the dating game

@Oupoes I'm not really hey, you're right, still have baggage with me.

i personally felt i had to heal first to give my next partner a fair part of my life

otherwise as you say - baggage man

Was just curious to see what's out there, but damn, the 30s game is full of kids

I applied to north west university for next year