Message from @Oupoes
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shit man sounds like you been on bread and water for too long
@Oupoes eish been through divorce and recovering here in Parys
got divorced many years ago - its freedom buddy
6 months then i'll be at operational capacity again
163kg when I got here 5 months ago, 125kg now and looking OK
feeling better as well
Thank God for moms
shit man - cudos to you for loosing all that weight
@Oupoes bro if it wasn't for my mom i'd be hanging from a rope a while back
163kg tells me you were comfort feeding - so you could not of been a happy chap
@Oupoes Yeah wasn't in a good place, the divorce wasn't surprising
and now that you down to 125 says you are on the path of recovery - good job
did you have kids
@Oupoes jeez thankfully not dude
would have made things 100x worse
allowed me to eject a bit out of society and come recover
yeah we had 1 child - she was 4 when we got divorced - very very ugly
@Oupoes That sucks dude 😦
nothing fun about this whole process
@Oupoes it's like losing someone to death, you know.
sucks
believe me when i say i feel you you brother
@Oupoes definitely made me self reflect though, and identify stuff that was wrong
still think about it
you will for a long time - thats part of the healing process
how are thing between you and your ex
now! i mean to say
@Oupoes I kind of cut off communication or contact
There aren't kids, so no need to dwell I guess
wow - it like i am talking to a mirror buddy
Try to avoid thinking about it in my head as well
all i know is it gets better rather quickly
Ya it's been like 6 months or so now
it's definitely better, I even looked at a dating app
but everyone has kids
lol
but dont be to eager to get back on the saddle of the dating game
@Oupoes I'm not really hey, you're right, still have baggage with me.
i personally felt i had to heal first to give my next partner a fair part of my life