Message from @Oupoes
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did you have kids
@Oupoes jeez thankfully not dude
would have made things 100x worse
allowed me to eject a bit out of society and come recover
yeah we had 1 child - she was 4 when we got divorced - very very ugly
@Oupoes That sucks dude 😦
nothing fun about this whole process
but hey we all turned out fine later on
@Oupoes it's like losing someone to death, you know.
sucks
believe me when i say i feel you you brother
@Oupoes definitely made me self reflect though, and identify stuff that was wrong
still think about it
you will for a long time - thats part of the healing process
how are thing between you and your ex
now! i mean to say
@Oupoes I kind of cut off communication or contact
There aren't kids, so no need to dwell I guess
wow - it like i am talking to a mirror buddy
Try to avoid thinking about it in my head as well
Ya it's been like 6 months or so now
it's definitely better, I even looked at a dating app
but everyone has kids
lol
but dont be to eager to get back on the saddle of the dating game
@Oupoes I'm not really hey, you're right, still have baggage with me.
i personally felt i had to heal first to give my next partner a fair part of my life
otherwise as you say - baggage man
Was just curious to see what's out there, but damn, the 30s game is full of kids
I applied to north west university for next year
waiting on NSFAS funding etc
degree in teaching, do a Van Wilder
brilliant
bang some 19 year olds, get my head straight
hehe
i see you like em young and tender
@Oupoes Trying to identify with experiences I had before I met my ex
@Oupoes lol, no not really, just a nice social space to enjoy
a sick buddy of mine always jokes that for him so long as their feet touch the ground when they go to the toilet they old enough for him
The post-uni environment is pretty depressing, especially in the 30s