@Oupoes it's like losing someone to death, you know.

sucks

believe me when i say i feel you you brother

@Oupoes definitely made me self reflect though, and identify stuff that was wrong

still think about it

you will for a long time - thats part of the healing process

how are thing between you and your ex

now! i mean to say

@Oupoes I kind of cut off communication or contact

There aren't kids, so no need to dwell I guess

wow - it like i am talking to a mirror buddy

Try to avoid thinking about it in my head as well

all i know is it gets better rather quickly

Ya it's been like 6 months or so now

it's definitely better, I even looked at a dating app

but everyone has kids

lol

but dont be to eager to get back on the saddle of the dating game

@Oupoes I'm not really hey, you're right, still have baggage with me.

i personally felt i had to heal first to give my next partner a fair part of my life

otherwise as you say - baggage man

Was just curious to see what's out there, but damn, the 30s game is full of kids

I applied to north west university for next year

waiting on NSFAS funding etc

degree in teaching, do a Van Wilder

brilliant

bang some 19 year olds, get my head straight

hehe

i see you like em young and tender

@Oupoes Trying to identify with experiences I had before I met my ex

@Oupoes lol, no not really, just a nice social space to enjoy

a sick buddy of mine always jokes that for him so long as their feet touch the ground when they go to the toilet they old enough for him

The post-uni environment is pretty depressing, especially in the 30s

@Oupoes lol, nah man I don't have any fetishes an stuff like that

haha

When i went to write the acceptance test the lecturer chick started clearly hitting on me at NWU

definitely getting some mojo back.

but seriously though - just go out there and enjoy you first and then the rest will fall into line

It's still 125kg, but it's a good 125kg

wow - i always wanted to bang a hot little lecturer

125kg you can work with, you know