Message from @Pendell

Discord ID: 513468767473500187


2018-11-17 21:33:10 UTC  

I'm not gender dysphoric anymore except when I feel threatened by laws that could place me in danger - mens bathrooms or jail cells with guys. Stuff like that. Or ID that doesn't match my obvious appearance and anatomy.

2018-11-17 21:33:33 UTC  

I wasn't saying you did.

2018-11-17 21:33:37 UTC  

I'm a scientist

2018-11-17 21:33:42 UTC  

Got it.

2018-11-17 21:33:49 UTC  

I'm a history major.

2018-11-17 21:33:50 UTC  

You need to be able to articulate about something

2018-11-17 21:34:00 UTC  

That's why I am so uncomfortable with PC

2018-11-17 21:34:20 UTC  

@Malt_Hitman there are countries where homosexuality is illegal and punished with a death sentence, they even lob all other forms of “deviant behavior” into the category that get death.
If you fall in one the deviant categories, just hope your plane doesn’t have to do a controlled emergency landing. This will require you to show them your passport.

2018-11-17 21:34:21 UTC  

How can we deliberate about something if we cannot utter the words associated with it

2018-11-17 21:34:33 UTC  

Precisely.

2018-11-17 21:34:47 UTC  

Thank you, critter

2018-11-17 21:35:11 UTC  

Though, may I now share an opinion about the bathroom laws?

2018-11-17 21:35:12 UTC  

I'm not thrilled to fly through Dubai or Doha with an M on my passport

2018-11-17 21:35:38 UTC  

Anything is game

2018-11-17 21:35:54 UTC  

I'm not your run of the mill trans with a chip on their shoulder

2018-11-17 21:36:18 UTC  

I just like to be polite.

2018-11-17 21:36:52 UTC  

I think it's reasonable to have someone who hasn't undergone the reassignment surgery yet use the bathroom associated with their physical sex.

2018-11-17 21:37:05 UTC  

That's a different story once the surgery has been done.

2018-11-17 21:39:59 UTC  

Five years ago I would have disagreed with you rather vociferously. That's before the trans community went batshit crazy and the cynics started trolling. Now, I think some scientifically observable line needs to be drawn.

2018-11-17 21:40:33 UTC  

I'm not an asshole, I just think it's prudent to temper compassion with logic and the law.

2018-11-17 21:41:33 UTC  

It's kind of an ethical question.
Do you risk making people feel uncomfortable to make other people feel comfortable?

2018-11-17 21:41:38 UTC  

I would've disagreed with myself five years ago.

2018-11-17 21:42:04 UTC  

Five years ago I didn't know transgender existed

2018-11-17 21:42:14 UTC  

I'm already uncomfortable in public bathrooms and locker rooms, and I'm straight.

2018-11-17 21:42:24 UTC  

but that's the thing, this is the outcome the "cynics" foresaw coming

2018-11-17 21:42:36 UTC  

There just has to be some line other that "looking" female or vice versa. I know some "born women" who look awfully masculine.

2018-11-17 21:42:58 UTC  

I get what you mean.

2018-11-17 21:43:28 UTC  

So measuring by birth certificate and requiring some medical evidence of the identified gender to get the BC changed. I'm jiggy with that.

2018-11-17 21:43:44 UTC  

You're good with that?

2018-11-17 21:43:50 UTC  

💯

2018-11-17 21:44:23 UTC  

That said, I have been "jewel free" for over a decade so I already meet the bar we're talking about

2018-11-17 21:44:31 UTC  

I don't speak in slang, I just incorporate Yiddish, German, Japanese, and Italian into my vocabulary.

2018-11-17 21:44:32 UTC  

When it comes to the transgender debate, I think there is one thing we can all agree one.
Tucutes are absolute shitheads.

2018-11-17 21:44:40 UTC  

Tucutes?

2018-11-17 21:44:44 UTC  

?

2018-11-17 21:44:53 UTC  

The people who believe you can be transgender without having dysphoria.

2018-11-17 21:45:03 UTC  

They treat it like some sort of game.

2018-11-17 21:45:09 UTC  

No, it's no game

2018-11-17 21:45:09 UTC  

That would trivialize it.

2018-11-17 21:45:17 UTC  

Most of them "identify" as trans for attention.

2018-11-17 21:45:22 UTC  

Disgusting.