She's negging you. It's a test to see if you can handle a little sass and play along

They all do that shit

Nah

That only works if I'm into you

If I were into the girl I'd probably reply

But I'm not interested, and you hit me with that? Yeah no.

Lol. I think you should treat her like the thot she is then and screw around with her then ghost

Plus you get experience with what you can and can't get away with saying

If a cute girl said something like that to me, id probably message again

This girl isn't cute enough for that level of effort.

The effort pays off when there's someone decent on the hook later

Like the girl who I messaged that ignored me? 😅

I'm not even sure why I'm on tinder. It's not like I'd ever actually ask one of these girls out.

My buddy helped me learn to message girls. I was trash. He let me on his FB and told me to message any girl on there whatever i wanted. See where it goes. I couldn't believe the positive responses.

Cant put high value on anyone on there. You don't even know them yet. Maybe ones hot, but they're a dime a dozen.
That's why i hate tinder. So many people looking for easy to find relationships that it's like flipping through a catalogue. Sure there's a lot of hot people out there, but all shallow

I've pretty much accepted that I'm not allowed to be happy. I'm on this Earth to be miserable.

Wow boys.

Go to Church. Let the Divine Providence of God guide you to the path he wants you to go down

If you want to be married, pray and seek that out.

If you want monasticism, pray and seek that out.

@GT1646 nah man it takes time, I didn't get married until I was what, 27? 28?

@Ragnarok yeah, but nothing in my life goes right

Expect nothing, anticipate everything.

I think I've mentioned that the only thing going my way is that my parents are alive.

That's really it.

I've felt the same way before

Yeah, but this has been my whole life

How old are you?

It's not like, the last year or two have been shitty

@Iakovos early 20s

Do you go to Church?

No

Seek out youth groups at parishes and get involved in communities people your age.

That's how I met this girl I am talking to.

I go to a religious school. I'm surrounded by Christians my age all day every day

Well.

I mean, I didn't know any of these people, and I went. We went bowling, and there were people from 18-30 from a whole collection of Orthodox Churches where I live. This girl and I met, and though we are simply acquaintances, it is something to work towards and be grateful to God about.

So I suggest the same to you, get involved in communities.

You can find strength if you open yourself up and meet new people.

I just hit 30. Figured I'd be married with kids by now. It's disappointing, but it will happen when it happens, you just have to know when to hold on.

I'm kinda hoping I just have a brain aneurysm or a heart attack or something tbh