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Then you are willfully putting yourself in a woeful situation.
It will be hard at first but things get easier
Otherwise, if you don't go and seek help to people who do care about you, you will regret it when they are gone.
As explained before, putting myself in uncomfortable situations has never paid off
They're your parents
They gave birth to you.
Allowed you to become *alive*
Yeah, and I loooove being alive don't I?
Seriously.
Seek professional help. That's all I've got.
If you feel like you have nothing left to lose, then really... Why not do the things you are too afraid to do?
Because if I won't gain anything from putting myself into uncomfortable situations, why should I?
Because why not? If you have nothing to lose, then you have everything to gain.
If the outcome is the same, why would anyone choose discomfort over comfort?
If I offered you $100 to sit in either a comfortable chair, or a chair covered in thumbtacks. Which chair would you sit in?
You don't know the outcome
But I do.
You think you do.
No matter my effort, no matter what I do, life will fuck me
So if I'm getting fucked either way, why should I make myself uncomfortable in the process?
Do you know what insanity is?
No risk no reward
Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result.
Can you be honest with yourself and say you really are trying though?
I would be insane to continue to put effort into something I know won't work
Insanity is you taking the path of least resistance, sulking, and not moving anywhere when you wish you were.
That's all assumption based. You can't achieve anything without work.
I've already explained
I've "done the work" it didn't get me anywhere
Change your mindset. Journal, snap elastics when negative thoughts pop up... Actively acknowledged your thoughts and take steps to change them. Don't let thoughts float by in the back of your mind.
The alternative is to do no work and be depressed when you have nothing to show for it. One guarantees misery, the other still holds possibility
Since the outcome is the same either way, I prefer not to waste my effort and try and trick myself with false hope.
Idk what to tell you then. Think about the advice we gave you at least. You'd be surprised how fast things can change
Won't be expecting any changes
20+ years of this so far
That's really not long at all
Like i said, think about it
Nigger
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