Maybe.

Bro, what happened?

Let me tet and type it iut

Very tired

Yeah. But its rare i connect to people thst way. Im 21. This is honestly my first major heart break. Losing my partner, her kid that i grew very attatched too, the home i lived in for a year, and working 60 hour weeks just piled on. I gave all i had and ran out of strength.

Please pardon my spelling errors. Ive been awake for nearly 2 full days

The official diagnosis was "Adjustment Disorder"

Yeah. But its rare i connect to people thst way. Im 21. This is honestly my first major heart break. Losing my partner, her kid that i grew very attatched too, the home i lived in for a year, and working 60 hour weeks just piled on. I gave all i had and ran out of strength

Basically my heart is trying to grieve fir everything i lost. My partner, her kid, my home. But my mind wont let it, so it bulds and builds until finaly i snap ig. I tgink i cried for over an hour when the ladg said i wasnt missing her, i was missing the hopes and dreams i had

Been there man

It gets better

Unfortunately the only thing that helps heal is time

And medication. But it does get better

Take it from a 30 year old divorced guy who’s wife left him on Christmas Eve.

For now, my watch is over and I may rest. I need time to heal

Ouch

Bro it sucked for about a year and a half but I promise you it does get better

21 y/o guy who's partner left him 2 weeks before his 21st. Hell of a birthday gift aye?

Ill get over it

Just takes time.

Do stuff that doesn’t remind you of her. That helped me a lot

And I threw myself into my work and then I found a better job and a better life that I wouldn’t have had if I was still with my ex wife

I will survive

My honor is called loyalty, now is the time I fight

Hey guys

Split up with my girlfriend of 2 years yesterday. Woke up today to a text from some guy who basically said he fucked her brains out.

Just been miserable all day

Do you know if she knows him?

Can be a troll probably

I'm sure she does

She lives in a rural costal town in Canada. Text was from the same area code.

Did she broke up first?

I did

Her attitude had changed over the last few months and I just wasn't happy

Oh

I know it's stupid to be sad over someone I chose to break up with but we were extremely close

It's totally normal

She's been with me since before I joined the military, was always super supportive of me and I think she just lost feelings at some point along the way

Sucks

Human after all

Can't say because she's a woman and every woman do this kind of shit

Men do the same

True

But I can say It's the kind of person no one should respect

I loved her a lot but just couldn't deal with the constant fighting all the time

Having a hard time letting go of those good memories from the past

Yeah no I'm just crushed that she would go out and do something like that right afterwards

He said she burned all the letters I had written her too

Douche

Right?

Hurts when the person gets unpredictable

I told him to enjoy my sloppy seconds and then just blocked him lol

Guys who do that are truly the lowest life forms on the planet

Chimps lol

Honestly

Just trying to put myself back together and forget about her and man it's rough

Oh boy we all know

Me and the rest of the goon squad passed from the same situation

Or at least close to it

Best thing to do is let the time pass, and the problems will pass too

Yeah, I feel you man.

Well I'll probably be hanging around here more often now. I need to be part of some sort of community outside of work and school. I just moved to this area and I'm in need of the support.

Came here for the same reason

Need some fellow goons to hang out and relate to

Can consider people here more family then guys I know face to face, tbh

Yep. Most of my social life is online at this point.

Mine too

Well thanks man, it's nice to have someone to vent to

I'm gonna go to the store and grab some beer haha

Got your six, pal

Good choice lol

Beer's always good in these times

I don't drink much, but when I'm sad, a beer won't hurt

three drinks in

pulled some secret squirrel maneuvers and the person who sent that text is actually one of her female friends

petty lmao

A thot then

pretty much

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Its good to see a fellow mythopoetic kommando

same

If there was ever a day I wanted to go on a rampage. Its today.

Reason?

Bitches breaking hearts and being cunts

bitches arn't worth it

Is this like a legit tell us your problems ir more ironic?

no its legit

So I got my heart broke by this chick. Lived with her for a year, dated for 2. Fuckin ditched me for my best friend. Great time. Such a small town I can't even avoid her lmao.

Its great, constantly feeling like eating a bullet

wow that shit

thats

Yeah.

It is.

atleast she didnt drag it on anymore and you got rid of all the back stabbing cunts all at once

I got really attached to her kid too. Built my whole world around em. Would have killed or died for them without thought

Except she did. 90% of our mutual friends don't talk to me now because I'm "toxic". Just found out the guy she left me for? Still talking to other bitches

So now I'm here with a gaping chest wound where my heart used to be, wondering how much shit I can actually take

sounds like its time to get out of that shitter ass town man, change it up and such you know

Would if I could

i would start saving up and start planning man, just think about the future and dont think about people that did you dirty other than them being a reason to move forward

Just had the exact same thing happen to me Totenkopf

2 years together and now she's with one of her friends. Painted me as toxic/abusive to all of her friends.

Just realize that those kinds of women are truly the abusive ones, and that they will continue the same cycle of bouncing between men and taking them for all they've got.

Focus on yourself and be better than her.

Yep

Them bitchs are toxic, gotta find you a wholesome woman

And why they gotta start shit after they break up like can't you just fuck off and not talk shit

Fuck them. They're fucking leeches who get what they want because of their genitals and they won't ever change no matter what kind of man they're with.

Cut her off and hit the fucking gym.

^^^

@Foxhound i feel you man my ex did the same thing

So you can do the same thing i did

Fuck his mother