Message from @thatgoonsteve42

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2019-07-14 08:17:24 UTC  

Let me tet and type it iut

2019-07-14 08:17:27 UTC  

Very tired

2019-07-14 08:18:37 UTC  

Yeah. But its rare i connect to people thst way. Im 21. This is honestly my first major heart break. Losing my partner, her kid that i grew very attatched too, the home i lived in for a year, and working 60 hour weeks just piled on. I gave all i had and ran out of strength.

2019-07-14 08:18:41 UTC  

Please pardon my spelling errors. Ive been awake for nearly 2 full days

2019-07-14 08:18:50 UTC  

The official diagnosis was "Adjustment Disorder"

2019-07-14 08:19:27 UTC  

Yeah. But its rare i connect to people thst way. Im 21. This is honestly my first major heart break. Losing my partner, her kid that i grew very attatched too, the home i lived in for a year, and working 60 hour weeks just piled on. I gave all i had and ran out of strength

2019-07-14 08:19:36 UTC  

Basically my heart is trying to grieve fir everything i lost. My partner, her kid, my home. But my mind wont let it, so it bulds and builds until finaly i snap ig. I tgink i cried for over an hour when the ladg said i wasnt missing her, i was missing the hopes and dreams i had

2019-07-14 08:19:40 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/574290286340079626/599877663024218122/Screenshot_20190714-041127_Google.jpg

2019-07-14 08:20:36 UTC  

Been there man

2019-07-14 08:20:59 UTC  

It gets better

2019-07-14 08:21:43 UTC  

Unfortunately the only thing that helps heal is time

2019-07-14 08:21:53 UTC  

And medication. But it does get better

2019-07-14 08:22:24 UTC  

Take it from a 30 year old divorced guy who’s wife left him on Christmas Eve.

2019-07-14 08:22:27 UTC  

For now, my watch is over and I may rest. I need time to heal

2019-07-14 08:22:28 UTC  

Ouch

2019-07-14 08:22:55 UTC  

Bro it sucked for about a year and a half but I promise you it does get better

2019-07-14 08:23:02 UTC  

21 y/o guy who's partner left him 2 weeks before his 21st. Hell of a birthday gift aye?

2019-07-14 08:23:08 UTC  

Ill get over it

2019-07-14 08:23:26 UTC  

Just takes time.

2019-07-14 08:23:38 UTC  

Do stuff that doesn’t remind you of her. That helped me a lot

2019-07-14 08:24:03 UTC  

And I threw myself into my work and then I found a better job and a better life that I wouldn’t have had if I was still with my ex wife

2019-07-14 08:28:16 UTC  

I will survive

2019-07-14 08:28:52 UTC  

My honor is called loyalty, now is the time I fight

2019-07-14 23:39:45 UTC  

Hey guys

Split up with my girlfriend of 2 years yesterday. Woke up today to a text from some guy who basically said he fucked her brains out.

Just been miserable all day

2019-07-14 23:40:58 UTC  

Do you know if she knows him?

2019-07-14 23:41:08 UTC  

Can be a troll probably

2019-07-14 23:41:33 UTC  

I'm sure she does

She lives in a rural costal town in Canada. Text was from the same area code.

2019-07-14 23:43:22 UTC  

Did she broke up first?

2019-07-14 23:44:04 UTC  

I did

Her attitude had changed over the last few months and I just wasn't happy

2019-07-14 23:44:15 UTC  

Oh

2019-07-14 23:44:36 UTC  

I know it's stupid to be sad over someone I chose to break up with but we were extremely close

2019-07-14 23:44:58 UTC  

It's totally normal

2019-07-14 23:45:35 UTC  

She's been with me since before I joined the military, was always super supportive of me and I think she just lost feelings at some point along the way

2019-07-14 23:45:48 UTC  

Sucks

2019-07-14 23:46:02 UTC  

Human after all

2019-07-14 23:46:19 UTC  

Can't say because she's a woman and every woman do this kind of shit

2019-07-14 23:46:26 UTC  

Men do the same

2019-07-14 23:46:30 UTC  

True

2019-07-14 23:47:13 UTC  

But I can say It's the kind of person no one should respect

2019-07-14 23:47:27 UTC  

I loved her a lot but just couldn't deal with the constant fighting all the time

Having a hard time letting go of those good memories from the past

2019-07-14 23:48:07 UTC  

Yeah no I'm just crushed that she would go out and do something like that right afterwards

He said she burned all the letters I had written her too