163kg tells me you were comfort feeding - so you could not of been a happy chap

@Oupoes Yeah wasn't in a good place, the divorce wasn't surprising

and now that you down to 125 says you are on the path of recovery - good job

did you have kids

@Oupoes jeez thankfully not dude

would have made things 100x worse

allowed me to eject a bit out of society and come recover

yeah we had 1 child - she was 4 when we got divorced - very very ugly

@Oupoes That sucks dude 😦

nothing fun about this whole process

but hey we all turned out fine later on

@Oupoes it's like losing someone to death, you know.

sucks

believe me when i say i feel you you brother

@Oupoes definitely made me self reflect though, and identify stuff that was wrong

still think about it

you will for a long time - thats part of the healing process

how are thing between you and your ex

now! i mean to say

@Oupoes I kind of cut off communication or contact

There aren't kids, so no need to dwell I guess

wow - it like i am talking to a mirror buddy

Try to avoid thinking about it in my head as well

all i know is it gets better rather quickly

Ya it's been like 6 months or so now

it's definitely better, I even looked at a dating app

but everyone has kids

lol

but dont be to eager to get back on the saddle of the dating game

@Oupoes I'm not really hey, you're right, still have baggage with me.

i personally felt i had to heal first to give my next partner a fair part of my life

otherwise as you say - baggage man

Was just curious to see what's out there, but damn, the 30s game is full of kids

I applied to north west university for next year

waiting on NSFAS funding etc

degree in teaching, do a Van Wilder

brilliant

bang some 19 year olds, get my head straight

hehe

i see you like em young and tender

@Oupoes Trying to identify with experiences I had before I met my ex

@Oupoes lol, no not really, just a nice social space to enjoy

a sick buddy of mine always jokes that for him so long as their feet touch the ground when they go to the toilet they old enough for him

The post-uni environment is pretty depressing, especially in the 30s

@Oupoes lol, nah man I don't have any fetishes an stuff like that

haha

When i went to write the acceptance test the lecturer chick started clearly hitting on me at NWU

definitely getting some mojo back.

but seriously though - just go out there and enjoy you first and then the rest will fall into line

It's still 125kg, but it's a good 125kg

wow - i always wanted to bang a hot little lecturer

125kg you can work with, you know

Once I get into the sub 110 its going to get dangerous

@Arcade_Hustle you can be friend willem at NWU

@Meerkat_RSA ye he knows im coming next year

he's not a bad dude

I would of gone to nwu

@Meerkat_RSA its a good uni

dads been there, and my sister

Parents earn to much for nsfas and to little to pay it self

@Meerkat_RSA oh balls OK

my mom does under 350k, I used to do 500k but my brain broke

and I kind of just ejected

Fucking dumb neh. We might qualify in November cuz we are moving to a bigger house. But the application period will be over

so hopefully nsfas goes through, I still do unisa though

@Meerkat_RSA did you apply for next year?

I think the applications are still open duder

@Arcade_Hustle they closing soon. For uni. At NWU and MUST complete unisa application soon.

UNISA is still excellent, but much less chance of fornication

I am might work at the same time.

I am planning to study bcom accounting. And after 5 years of experience i will get a good salary

oof accounting

@Meerkat_RSA ja never diss unisa it's excellent

@Darkseid whyyyy

And might do a year extra for forensic accounting

Purely interested in NWU for procreation purposes

@Meerkat_RSA It's going to be rough, my friends are doing CA..

If I don't get into NWU Unisa is the way to go

What will you teach?

I'll teach everything they teach me on /pol/

no jk probably information technology

There is a a shortage on IT teachers

The students of the English school must come to our school for IT lessons cuz we have the only IT teacher in town

@Meerkat_RSA was really surprised I got in

I didn't have university acceptance on Matric but I worked for Ford for many years etc

lots of enterprise IT etc

So I got accepted on that

Would be pretty cool to teach the noobs the ins and outs of enterprise IT

Jeez if I get into NSFAS funding, AND weed is legal in SA?

man 2019 might just be awesome

@ZombieQueen Good evening.

Good Morning, Dude. @Arcade_Hustle

@Arcade_Hustle 😛

@ZombieQueen Dankie!!!

@ZombieQueen couldn't ask for a better waifu

😂 You're welcome, dude. @Arcade_Hustle

Nor do I.. I don't believe in the institution of it.. @Oupoes

Your dad sounds like he was a pretty awesome dude..That would be fun.. @Arcade_Hustle

@ZombieQueen Ye you'd have love him, which worries me, because YOU're my waifu

too alpha to live that man